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[Exi]

I am seething with rage rn.
So I have a younger brother that's in grade 9.
They had the assignment to make a video in his geography class, and his classmates said it was the best in class.
His ex-friend, who now vapes, boxes, and is a delinquent, didn't do the assignment and saw his assignment.
The ex-friend wanted my brother to do his assignment for $20 and threatened to beat my brother up if he said no.
Also, the ex-friend told him not to tell anyone, or he would beat my brother up.
My brother is batshit scared of being beaten up if he doesn't do it.
He was thinking of doing it, but I'm like, that dipshit would bother you again for work if he sees that you're easy to take advantage of.
For now, my brother has a field trip so I decided to take my dad with me to his high school tomorrow.
We're going to talk to the school about it and get that dipshit to stop tomorrow.
Any suggestions on anything else I should do?

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[Ahsoka]

Wow, I hope everything turns out for the best

 

[Nina]

Hopefully the school does something about it.

Advise your brother not to be alone if the guy is still around. If he needs to get a book, take a friend.
idk if guys are still weird on taking a friend to the bathroom but same applies.

Adults should def step up and do something but knowing school bullies, some adults tend to brush it off like nothing. >.>
And it's hard to work up the courage to stand up for your yourself.

I hope things work out in your brother's favor.

 

[Jewel]

Sounds like you're doing the most mature thing to do. You're going about it the right way. I'd also advise your brother to not be alone no matter where he is. If the boy confronts him, he should IMMEDIATELY go to a teacher or staff. I know it may be hard for him to get to a staff or teacher because the boy could try to block him and similar, but he needs to try to escape to a safe place and make sure he's not alone with the boy. Make sure he stays in visible open places. Kids nowadays are TERRIFYING. Don't ever doubt or put it pass this kid to do something harmful or dangerous to your brother. Honestly, I'm very proud of you and your brother for going about this the most appropriate non-confrontational way. I sincerely hope the kid gets repercussions and while they're at it they may wanna check the kid's locker and home life. Hoping for the best for you and your brother and for the right thing to happen.

 

[forsoyeon]

Report anonymously,
This is harassment your brother shouldn't take this.
Or, let the parents know and they would handle it.

 

[Wingfrost]

I would suggest doing what you plan on doing with your dad, just make sure that the school actually does something. Hope everything turns out okay.

 

[Tickita]

You're doing the right thing bringing it up to the adults. Maybe also check in with the school after the initial convo? Your dad and/or you should stay on them, to make sure it's actually getting handled.

Good luck to all of you.

 

[MK3AM]

does his school have something to report stuff anonymously?

 

[Exi]

does his school have something to report stuff anonymously?

idk, gonna inquire tomorrow

 

[Yelena_Belova]

I hope everything works out and that guy gets what he deserves.

 

[badcrookshanks]

get him expelled

 

[Magician]

You should definitely talk to the school about it, so they are aware of the problem
And I wouldn’t do it anonymously, bc then they often don’t take it seriously enough
Commumicate that your brother is scared and don’t feel safe anymore and that need to take actions

 

[MK3AM]

idk, gonna inquire tomorrow

if there is use that and say you're a student

 

[Chilly]

I think u r doing the right thing but make sure your brother is not alone and really push to make the school do something, the friend could also do something outside of school too if he is a threat

I’m sorry that happening

 

[PloryWinxyMYBlnk]

Telling his parents about the threat should wake their asses up in finally and seriously disciplining him.

Maybe even double down and go a step further by having your parents clearly tell them their son will get charged if your brother does get bullied and attacked to ensure your parents are being taken very seriously. But, first, maybe get a restraining order on him since your brother was threatened.

That's all I can think of. Anyway, all the best to your family.

 

[litc]

I am seething with rage rn.
So I have a younger brother that's in grade 9.
They had the assignment to make a video in his geography class, and his classmates said it was the best in class.
His ex-friend, who now vapes, boxes, and is a delinquent, didn't do the assignment and saw his assignment.
The ex-friend wanted my brother to do his assignment for $20 and threatened to beat my brother up if he said no.
Also, the ex-friend told him not to tell anyone, or he would beat my brother up.
My brother is batshit scared of being beaten up if he doesn't do it.
He was thinking of doing it, but I'm like, that dipshit would bother you again for work if he sees that you're easy to take advantage of.
For now, my brother has a field trip so I decided to take my dad with me to his high school tomorrow.
We're going to talk to the school about it and get that dipshit to stop tomorrow.
Any suggestions on anything else I should do?

Spoiler: some amigos

@GyutiePie
@Kamistar @Hakunama_Tata @Naru @litc @xtra @Nina @lexus @Tickita @Yerichu @OnlyCalB @Yili @Wingfrost @Chilly
@Day @Vikki @uran @LilacNyx @velvet @Kramsussussybaka
@Moguri @baejin @lver @DarthYouChanious @badcrookshanks @centen @MK3AM

Besides telling the school administration, I think you guys should also tell the teacher of that particular class.

Will this other boy also be on the field trip? Then either call whoever the supervisors are or don’t let him go in case the boy does something there when out of adults sight

 

[OnlyCalB]

You are doing the right thing. Never give in to bullies, ever.

It's best the school know about it so they can deal with it. Hopefully all goes well for your brother.