if you aren't happy......... (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

.. do you think you ever will be? how do you imagine getting there and what do you think your happiness will look like....? I know it's something that comes and goes, but to me that's more like joy.. when I say happiness, I mean a general state of being okay and satisfied for more than just a few moments.. ofc things are never perfect but you know, doing well in life and feeling good, more or less.... idk

Spoiler: me

I guess I still have those silly fantasies, but I'll most likely never become who I wanna be and live the life I wish for.... if I can't do it while I'm still young, it's probably just gonna get worse later but I guess we'll see, you never really know for sure.. kinda sad to think I have so much potential but I'm utterly lost and messed up .. well, who knows.. maybe life surprises me in a positive way lol

 

[JakeyWantsCakey]

I don't think so, I know it sounds pessimistic but I've been in some form of depression or another since I was like 12 and at this point I've just kind of accepted that it's part of my life and that I've got to get on with it.

 

[kodoku]

I don't think so, I know it sounds pessimistic but I've been in some form of depression or another since I was like 12 and at this point I've just kind of accepted that it's part of my life and that I've got to get on with it.

I feel you...reminds me of that quote "maybe life isn't for everyone" it's sad and heartbreaking....... but I hope we both find a way someday..... <3

 

[mysteric]

don’t clap your hands
Sorry that was my first thought reading the title
my mood swings a decent amount depending on the month tbh
I’m doing fine now ig, but the last few months felt like hell. It’s exhausting sometimes ngl, but I guess it’ll get better eventually and if it doesn’t I’ll just have to learn to deal with it, which, to be fair, is basically my life philosophy at this point

 

[dark_tranquility]

Not really. I don't care much for my own happiness. I care more about those around me than myself.

 

[Saythename17]

Not really. I don't care much for my own happiness. I care more about those around me than myself.

I agree with this!

 

[yeji]

I do think I will be happy at the end of it all. I am an optimist so that kinda helps me.

 

[Inevitable]

I think I'll be happy at some point. I've been at a point where I don't know what I'm doing with life for a while, but I think of when I was happier a few years ago. I'm a bit of a workaholic, and work seems to really affect my mental health. When I do something I enjoy, I feel so much better.

 

[Wingfrost]

Maybe, I really don't know to be honest. I feel like I'll never be happy if I can't really ever be the person I want to be and I don't ever see that being a thing that happens. I think my idea of happiness for myself is just a fairy tail.

 

[Abeamus]

I'd say I'm happy right now, there might come times where happiness isn't the most dominant feeling and something else is on my mind but I know I have people who care about me for when those times come and that brings me comfort.

 

[Saladitas]

I've come to terms with the fact I'll never be happy. My social anxiety has made happiness for me nearly impossible to achieve. At this point, I'm having to learn with living with social anxiety which is the last thing I wanted.