I’m already horrible at talking, throw in an attractive person and… (1 Viewer)

[Wingfrost]

I am a rambling mess
So an old friend from when I was a teenager came back into town, he sometimes would visit over the years, we’d say a quick hello and whatnot and move on, but now he’s officially back and I finally got up the courage to say hi to him and- I literally just blurted out tons of questions at once before he could even get a word in because my nerves were just
He thankfully helped redirect the conversation to just one of the many things i asked him and saved me from being more embarrassed but I just wanted to dig myself into a hole and hide.
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[litc]

I am a rambling mess
So an old friend from when I was a teenager came back into town, he sometimes would visit over the years, we’d say a quick hello and whatnot and move on, but now he’s officially back and I finally got up the courage to say hi to him and- I literally just blurted out tons of questions at once before he could even get a word in because my nerves were just
He thankfully helped redirect the conversation to just one of the many things i asked him and saved me from being more embarrassed but I just wanted to dig myself into a hole and hide.
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Is it more bc he’s attractive or more bc he’s an old friend

 

[Wingfrost]

Is it more bc he’s attractive or more bc he’s an old friend

I think a mixture of both tbh I just find myself being really nervous around him now.

 

[uran]

You can practise by talking to me

 

[Wingfrost]

You can practise by talking to me

 

[Selfmate]

is he more attractive now?
did you have a crush on me beforehand?

 

[seungfloral]

Awww thats so cute. I bet he found u cute too

 

[litc]

I think a mixture of both tbh I just find myself being really nervous around him now.

Ah

the thread (not title) made it seem more like it’s bc hes Your old friend

does he look “more grown up now” or smth?

 

[uran]

 

[Nina]

You can stare at his forehead instead of his eyes and think about chickens when you talk to him. See if that helps a bit. I completing understand the rambling mess situation.
My voice tends to get soft and quiet when I’m nervous around someone which is already annoying because I’m generally on the quieter side >.> so I get a lot of “can you repeat that?”

 

[Pirioca]

He thankfully helped redirect the conversation to just one of the many things i asked him and saved me from being more embarrassed but I just wanted to dig myself into a hole and hide.
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Often we think that we embarass yourself, while the other person don't even notice it. You showed that you are interested in the person and that's the reason why you asked so many questions. Is that a bad thing automatically?

 

[Sanumi]

Maybe you should ask him to hang out

 

[Moguri]

Awww thats so cute. I bet he found u cute too

I also think the situation sounded really cute, don't get discouraged Wingsy!

 

[Wingfrost]

is he more attractive now?
did you have a crush on me beforehand?

Ah

the thread (not title) made it seem more like it’s bc hes Your old friend

does he look “more grown up now” or smth?

He’s always been attractive but, I always just saw him as a friend I guess (also at that time I liked someone else). I honestly don’t like the idea of romantic relationships anymore so fussing over the idea of a crush is not something I wanna do tbh

You can stare at his forehead instead of his eyes and think about chickens when you talk to him. See if that helps a bit. I completing understand the rambling mess situation.
My voice tends to get soft and quiet when I’m nervous around someone which is already annoying because I’m generally on the quieter side >.> so I get a lot of “can you repeat that?”

Same, I’m always told I need to “speak up” but if I try to raise my voice it causes my throat to hurt because my voice is soft. In places like subway (where you have to order over those glass counters) they almost always can never hear me and I have to let my mom order for me.

Often we think that we embarass yourself, while the other person don't even notice it. You showed that you are interested in the person and that's the reason why you asked so many questions. Is that a bad thing automatically?

Very true. It’s not a bad thing at all, I just wish I wouldn’t have said them all at once.

Maybe you should ask him to hang out

No no

 

[litc]

He’s always been attractive but, I always just saw him as a friend I guess (also at that time I liked someone else). I honestly don’t like the idea of romantic relationships anymore so fussing over the idea of a crush is not something I wanna do tbh



Same, I’m always told I need to “speak up” but if I try to raise my voice it causes my throat to hurt because my voice is soft. In places like subway (where you have to order over those glass counters) they almost always can never hear me and I have to let my mom order for me.

Very true. It’s not a bad thing at all, I just wish I wouldn’t have said them all at once.


No no

So it’s more bc of not seeing your friend a while it seems

 

[athenaaa]

The title of this thread is a big mood

 

[Wingfrost]

So it’s more bc of not seeing your friend a while it seems

 

[Nina]

Same, I’m always told I need to “speak up” but if I try to raise my voice it causes my throat to hurt because my voice is soft. In places like subway (where you have to order over those glass counters) they almost always can never hear me and I have to let my mom order for me.

Everyone else just needs to learn to not be so loud. we are perfectly fine.

 

[Wingfrost]

Everyone else just needs to learn to not be so loud. we are perfectly fine.

 

[dark_tranquility]

I am the same.. Just socially awkward around females.
I try to not to be, but it is difficult. At the end of the day, do you.