18+ my opinion on marriage (1 Viewer)

[TDOONG]

im pretty ok with marriage....
I was thinking of having 1 kid and homeschooling them, than I will be putting them in Karate/Gymnastic dosent matter and after that I will put them into a complementary dance school and after that my son/daughter become a trainee than debut as a succsessful idol :) it will make me so happy if it happens.

 

[cocomelon]

im pretty ok with marriage....
I was thinking of having 1 kid and homeschooling them, than I will be putting them in Karate/Gymnastic dosent matter and after that I will put them into a complementary dance school and after that my son/daughter become a trainee than debut as a succsessful idol :) it will make me so happy if it happens.

well good for you but please dont end up forcing ur children or expecting them to fulfil your dream wishes for u

 

[TDOONG]

well good for you but please dont end up forcing ur children or expecting them to fulfil your dream wishes for u

wont

 

[Park_Jimin]

I'm not even married but It'll seem nice to do when I'm ready to take care of someone else rather than my ass
I mean I can see why others don't marry but we each have our own perspective on how marriage can be viewed

 

[Haiku]

Interesting

 

[Mew]

Never really believed in marriage but not against it. If it happens it happens
Tastless sex depends on the people's combatability.. You can also gave tons of tasteless horrible sex with multiple people... But I'm bias considering I've had amazing sex for the last 14 years with the same person, so it's all good here... I'll see in another 10 years if it fizzles out lol

 

[Juniverse]

 

[gongchan]

Marriage sounds nice to me... sometimes. I would worry I may lose my mind without personal space. And if I married too young and lost all my freedom too early... that could be sad. Otherwise though, I think it sounds like it could be good with the right person. I think I am a bit too much of a hopeless romantic, though.

 

[cocomelon]

 

[Abeamus]

Just because you live with someone doesn't mean you're around them 24/7 as unless you live in a pretty small house without many rooms then you could have your main hobbies in different rooms but it also gives you the easy option of spending time together however you do have to want to live together for that to work.

For the intimacy then it depends on the couple as the honeymoon phase of a relationship you're likely to treat your partner special as that's just how it is but a relationship can't rely on the honeymoon phase and eventually you will have to treat your partner special just because you want to.

As humans are creatures of habit it can become routine and you don't want that for your love life so spending time together doing things you usually wouldn't is a way to make spending time together feel special especially trying something new together be it a potential hobby or sex related.

Living together and being married doesn't need to be a scary thing but you need to seriously take the time to really evaluate your relationship and be honest with yourself if you think it's a step more than you're ready for as the same way you need to be ready for a relationship you have to be ready for this too.

I'm not that bothered about being married specifically as I think you still need to trust the person you're with for a long lasting relationship however for some people it's one of their dreams or they'll worry you aren't committed long term if you aren't married so I'm not opposed to it as long as I feel comfortable with that person.

 

[eclipsoul]

YALL ENJOY UR TASTELESS SEX

the sounds i heard from my former neighbours sometimes when the tv in my house was turned off beg to differ

 

[Soogi]

i mean, marriage requires time and effort. if you don't go out of your way to do something special for your partner and try new things together, and if you don't understand each other's boundaries, and if you're not ready to commit to one person (or multiple if you're into polygamy ig) then of course you're not going to have a good time. that applies to any type of long-term relationship, married or not.

 

[uran]

i would marry really rich person in a heartbeat

 

[cocomelon]

the sounds i heard from my former neighbours sometimes when the tv in my house was turned off beg to differ

I AM SO SORRY FOR U IT MUST BE TRAUMATIC 😭