Okay, so what do I do now?! (1 Viewer)

[SojuPang]

I'll be as brief as possible:

Guy at work. We'll call him 'J'.

Work = 2 buildings on the same street- I work in building 1, he works in building 2 across the street

One slow day, I go to building 2 to help ---> First encounter with J.
I notice him, but he doesn't occupy my mind too much

Then, on a busy day, J comes into my building to help ---> J turns his head and looks at me any time I enter his field of vision.
(I catch him looking from the corner of my eye MULTIPLE times. I have a hunch the other dudes in my department noticed too, ugh 🙄)

My department moves to building 2 where J works.

See him every day. J continues to always look but never speak.

J's colleagues take a liking to me (friendly). J continues to stare at me but not speak to me


Fast forward 7-8 months ---->

I'm working in an area by myself.

J walks by and says "Good Morning!", speaking to me for the first time ever, scaring the hell outta me

But I'm cool af, smile, and say "Good morning ^-^"


It has now been 2 weeks


I think J likes me and I've lowkey been waiting for J to say something this whole time..


But tbh, idk what I should do now.. 😕☹

 

[yeji]

maybe start a natrual conversation with him?

 

[SojuPang]

maybe start a natrual conversation with him?

What about? 😣
I typically ease in to someone I've just met.

But I never had someone stare at me for 9 months lmao
A simple "how are you?", "What's up?"

 

[yeji]

What about?😣
I typically ease in to someone I've just met.

But I never had someone stare at me for 9 months lmao
A simple "how are you?", "What's up?"

yes. just something basic like that.
a start needs to happen somehow.
seems like he is shy in that aspect so you need to help out in this situation

 

[SojuPang]

yes. just something basic like that.
a start needs to happen somehow.
seems like he is shy in that aspect so you need to help out in this situation

lmao who said i wasn't shy too XD
Ehh, I guess... if he mustered up the courage to say something after so long, maybe I can too

*already panicking*

i was in the same situation with a girl i liked


TALK TO HIM or else you'll regret it later

i never talked to this girl and nothing really came out of it

Ahh nooo, don't scare me 😢

 

[jasque]

What about?😣
I typically ease in to someone I've just met.

But I never had someone stare at me for 9 months lmao
A simple "how are you?", "What's up?"

You just need to start with something simple like "man I wish my vacation was next week"

Then he'll go like "Why? My vacation is soon" or something if he isn't as shy as an otaku teenager

 

[JoanaIsHere]

Ask him out !! If he rejects who cares