SHE WANTS TO LEAVE KS!!!! (2 Viewers)

[milk]

what?????????

@yellowcoat I like you a lot, don't leave me Who can hate you, you are so nice and sweet

 

[Sffaz]

For the record, i'm the alt of the user who is the cause of the reason in the OP. I have never thought a disagreement in philosophical thoughts and behavioral attitudes is a sufficient reason to leave the forum.

I believe KPopSource can accommodate all sorts of users. I didn't ask for her to leave nor do I want to be known as the meanie who forced a popular user to withdraw.

If you want me to reveal myself, i'll think about it. Meanwhile @yellowcoat if there's anything you want to discuss, could you please dm my original account.

We can discuss whatever you want or nothing at all if you prefer, Thank you.
And i hope i don't get hated as i never asked for her to leave over our disagreements. For the record, i don't agree with the statement that i don't like her. (It might be obvious who i am now, but if you know, lease refrain from speculating until you know if yellowcoat hates me wants you to not like or not, or if she wants you to release hate non-rule breaking criticism of me or my original account.)

This alt was created to address this but i'm not sure if it's the right way to do so. Let the dice roll and see what we'll get. Ball's in your court, now. Say on. (If @SHINee doesn't want me to go OT from her OP, just let me know and ill move the discussion to a new thread.)

 

[brekker]

before the mods shower me with warming points, know that I have NEVER discussed anything via PMs, discord or anything else with the user above me. what is even going on?

I have never reported you, never made a thread about you or done anything else. I have explained my reasoning in this forum. I don´t know anyone personally on this forum but me and @SHlNEE talk tete-a-tete on discord and I have had some problems that I shared with her. She knew why I felt that way and that my reason for potentially leaving did not come from simply one post.

She has been kind enough for trying to help me out as she knows I have been struggling with probably overreacting a bit. I know myself and I know sometimes my attitude is a bit too much and I have simply felt like I was hurting other people and that perhaps I did not fit in. I´m dedicated, I´m "loud" as for posting a lot, talking a lot and I´m a big enthusiast for .... writing ... stories, chats, anything.

sure maybe it´s a bit attention-whoring (pardon my french) but we all sometimes want a bit of attention and insurance that we are wanted somewhere.
I´m surprised and touched so many people came to answer the thread and it makes me smile and blush a little. I am happy that people are interested in getting to know me better and that I don´t feel like a nuance. It also makes me approach them, thank them and reach out to perhaps talk more?

I´m hardly a popular user and no one was bashing you here! no one even knows who you are! why am I the bad guy again? this is like Mafia Game 2.0 :D

 

[SHlNEE]

For the record, i don't agree with the statement that i don't like her.

to me your message seems personal but i stated she felt like SOME people don't like her much , not just 1
it was not a personal attack nor focused on people in particular
this thread was about me being sad she wanted to leave
and wanted to give her some love

i don't know who you are but i can take a guess
but it just does not make sense because your messages so far do not match the typing style of the person i think you might be
wtf is going on lol

 

[Sffaz]

before the mods shower me with warming points, know that I have NEVER discussed anything via PMs, discord or anything else with the user above me. what is even going on?

I have never reported you, never made a thread about you or done anything else. I have explained my reasoning in this forum. I don´t know anyone personally on this forum but me and @SHlNEE talk tete-a-tete on discord and I have had some problems that I shared with her. She knew why I felt that way and that my reason for potentially leaving did not come from simply one post.

She has been kind enough for trying to help me out as she knows I have been struggling with probably overreacting a bit. I know myself and I know sometimes my attitude is a bit too much and I have simply felt like I was hurting other people and that perhaps I did not fit in. I´m dedicated, I´m "loud" as for posting a lot, talking a lot and I´m a big enthusiast for .... writing ... stories, chats, anything.

sure maybe it´s a bit attention-whoring (pardon my french) but we all sometimes want a bit of attention and insurance that we are wanted somewhere.
I´m surprised and touched so many people came to answer the thread and it makes me smile and blush a little. I am happy that people are interested in getting to know me better and that I don´t feel like a nuance. It also makes me approach them, thank them and reach out to perhaps talk more?

I´m hardly a popular user and no one was bashing you here! no one even knows who you are! why am I the bad guy again? this is like Mafia Game 2.0 :D

I haven't said anyone bashed me but the fact that in the OP, it was mentioned that you felt you weren't universally liked made me paranoid. It could have been not so up-front that we had our disagreements.(even anonymised, if we had continued interacting in my original account it would have been awkward with this cloud hanging over us)

I have nothing but encouragement for you two to continue being on Kpopsource. I was being rash and on impulse reacted by being critical, i don't regret or apologise for the criticism but i
do regret the rashness and the impulsiveness. Earlier, you brought out the worse instincts in me and so i disengaged to prevent myself from going even further dow that path. It wasn't meant as anything else but a defense mechanism from myself spiraling into a vortex of self-doubt and self-defense Thank you.

to me your message seems personal but i stated she felt like SOME people don't like her much , not just 1
it was not a personal attack nor focused on people in particular
this thread was about me being sad she wanted to leave
and wanted to give her some love

i don't know who you are but i can take a guess
but it just does not make sense because your messages so far do not match the typing style of the person i think you might be
wtf is going on lol

I am writing this way for my own reasons, not to hide my identity which i think you have guessed anyway. I think i have addressed some of your other points above, so i will try not torepeat myself again here.

But stating things how you did in your OP made me paranoid to address her in my original account. It would have been awkward to approach her on how to move forward. Thank you.

 

[Darkseid]

Guys I think it's best to stop here before things escalate. Thanks.

 

[eclipsoul]

i'm a bit late to this so i don't really know what's going on (not that i need to, it's none of my business) but i just want to say that i'm really glad @yellowcoat decided to say on ks. you're one of the kindest users on here and i enjoy seeing you around even if we never talked personally, i hope you stay here for much longer

 

[Michael]

I'm known around the forum as a chill user; but I many times get hurt while interacting here. When that happens, I just retreat. When it has passed, then I can see clearly how to respond if at all. Most of the times I end up not responding at all. It's the way I have learned to behave with the experience over the years.

 

[brekker]

I'm known around the forum as a chill user; but I many times get hurt while interacting here. When that happens, I just retreat. When it has passed, then I can see clearly how to respond if at all. Most of the times I end up not responding at all. It's the way I have learned to behave with the experience over the years.

thank you. I feel like as I grow older, I am trying to approach things this way too. It is better to calm down a little and stop oneself from reacting immediately, after all, we might seriously overreact and hurt other people. I have definitely done that. I was annoyed by something on here and my overexcitement about that thing brought the worst in me. I later felt ashamed and we talked it through with @SHlNEE who made me realise with her honest approach that I did overstep and actually was the bad guy in that situation. I honestly felt bad and it all escalated in me overthinking about other past situations. (yes, plurals) that I might have joined too quickly and talked too much in a very short time.

@eclipsoul thank you so much for your kind words, neighbour ♥. sisters in bad luck in cards ♥ but we always find a way through.

 

[PrideInBaek]

I honestly don't know what's happening a recurring theme today but let's calm down everyone. spread some love

 

[brekker]

I honestly don't know what's happening a recurring theme today but let's calm down everyone. spread some love

absolutely darling! let´s not worry! we had such a fantastic time at mafia game after all. ♥♥♥

I will all shower you with messages, music and fanfics :D.

don´t worry about it!

 

[JJbaker]

@yellowcoat
Little late to the party of support
but
i am very bad at getting to know people on here but i love everyone unique opions on things
im personally very open about my opinion even if no1 agrees
so seriously dont stress about being yourself
and if u ever want to chat feel free to mesg me feel free

 

[brekker]

@yellowcoat
Little late to the party of support
but
i am very bad at getting to know people on here but i love everyone unique opions on things
im personally very open about my opinion even if no1 agrees
so seriously dont stress about being yourself
and if u ever want to chat feel free to mesg me feel free

thank you, dearie and same goes to you ♥. I´m not the best at interacting but hey we can help each other with that? :)
I love your dedication to NCT! you are AWESOME!

 

[JJbaker]

thank you, dearie and same goes to you ♥. I´m not the best at interacting but hey we can help each other with that? :)
I love your dedication to NCT! you are AWESOME!

dedication << i like that xD i say obsession

and sure
if you ever see my post and want to rant on it
go wild im always up for a debate
:D

 

[brekker]

dedication << i like that xD i say obsession

and sure
if you ever see my post and want to rant on it
go wild im always up for a debate
:D

I know and that´s what I like to do. my kind of gal ♥ :D

 

[JJbaker]

I know and that´s what I like to do. my kind of gal ♥ :D

Imma boy haha
but thanks lol

 

[brekker]

Imma boy haha
but thanks lol

sorry :D :D :D

 

[VillageIdiot]

Who's gonna be nice to people if we lose yellowcoat

 

[Wingfrost]

I’m late but I’m happy to know that your staying with us @yellowcoat, you’re one of the nicest users here and it would be so weird for you to leave us. It wouldn’t be the same.

 

[Wicked]

I'm also late but I think you're really sweet @yellowcoat
Please don't leave.
If you ever need someone to talk to, I'll be around! I wouldn't mind at all.