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People are angry, because Trump is taking away the 'gender neutral' optionit just gets confusing with genders
like we have
female, male, intersex, nonbinary, trigender, xenogender, aesthetigender, genderfluff, etc
it just seems easier to have a select few, no? it's only for documentations and such but in their day to day lives, they can still identify how they want, or am I just not getting it?
And there is no legitimate reason to do thatIn 2022, the Biden administration allowed U.S. citizens to be able to select the gender-neutral "X" as a marker on their passports.
Unless he signs an executive order to abolish that ruleat least he cant be president again after those 4 years....![]()
lets hope that wont be possible.Unless he signs an executive order to abolish that rule![]()
I mean, it's a lot simpler on official documentation to only have two, no? on everything else, you can identify however you want ;-;People are angry, because Trump is taking away the 'gender neutral' option
I mean, honestly, I wouldn't mind it bc I know i'm not and my friends and family also know. I don't see how a piece of plastic could define myself. :/Just hopping into the conversation as the OP of this thread
It’s more than just documentation. This order makes anyone outside of the binary fear for their safety on a day to day basis. It subjects them to further harassment, more than they already experience in their day to day lives. And documentation is a part of the person. Just imagine if your ID had to say male on it despite you being female… how would you feel? And then if everyone assumed you were male in your day to day? Can I assume you would make you at least a little bit uncomfortable? This is how gender diverse people feel EVERY DAY, but amplified due to the hate crimes they experience. Their one security blanket has been stripped from them.
Why is it simpler? It's just one option more and it worked fine the past two yearsI mean, it's a lot simpler on official documentation to only have two, no? on everything else, you can identify however you want ;-;
But for many people it does. That ID could be one piece of confirmation that they are who they say they are when they don’t have people who support them. And even if they do have people who support them, that piece of plastic says they are valid. Some people are changing their ID’s back to the sex they were born as, rather than the gender they identify as. There is a difference between gender and sex, which is why I make this distinctionI mean, honestly, I wouldn't mind it bc I know i'm not and my friends and family also know. I don't see how a piece of plastic could define myself. :/
idk, Ig it just comes down to moralsWhy is it simpler? It's just one option more and it worked fine the past two years
And no, you sadly can't identify however you want on everything else
So, what legitimate reason is there to take away the gender neutral option?
it's just confusing for me.But for many people it does. That ID could be one piece of confirmation that they are who they say they are when they don’t have people who support them. And even if they do have people who support them, that piece of plastic says they are valid. Some people are changing their ID’s back to the sex they were born as, rather than the gender they identify as. There is a difference between gender and sex, which is why I make this distinction
If you’re ever confused about someone’s pronouns, just ask them. They know themselves bestit's just confusing for me.
I know that every autistic person is different, but for cases of autism such as me, I tend to go by what a person looks like in the face to know how to address them the first time I meet them. There will be some people who don't mind it, some who also don't mind it but will kindly correct you and/or ask you if you could try to remember the next time, and then there's the people who flat out call you transphobic for misgendering them when you don't even know them. it's straight up confusing and for my mind, it's easier to just stick with what I know as it keeps me from getting overwhelmed with everything I have to remember about people.
yea but then there's also the risk of them getting offended that I didn't know ;-;If you’re ever confused about someone’s pronouns, just ask them. They know themselves best![]()
It’s how you word it. Don’t be like “I don’t know what to call you”, instead say something like “which pronouns may I use to make you feel comfortable”. Many people initially get upset as a defensive mechanism. If someone has been constantly attacked by others, they put up walls.yea but then there's also the risk of them getting offended that I didn't know ;-;
what am I supposed to do then?
okayIt’s how you word it. Don’t be like “I don’t know what to call you”, instead say something like “which pronouns may I use to make you feel comfortable”. Many people initially get upset as a defensive mechanism. If someone has been constantly attacked by others, they put up walls.
Unfortunately, that'll be a complete non-starter, as it requires that the articles pass the House (which has a Republican majority that kowtows to Trump) and then pass the senate with a 67% majority.Cheers to his early retirement. Hopefully this time impeachment will stick.
unfortunately, nothose egg prices lowered yet?