We know we are going to feel frustrated at some point (1 Viewer)

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And we are highly likely to face a problem or task that feels too hard.



When we chain the states and link them together, the feeling of ‘it’s too hard’ leaks into feeling
really frustrated.



And the frustration leaks into impatience, and the impatience leaks into curiosity.



Then you really start trying to answer the problem.



This will turn you into a tenacious person.



In this case the sequence is:
Frustration, Hesitation, Impatience, Curiosity, Desire



All too often when we get frustrated, someone will tell us off
and the result is that the learning just stops.



The effect of this is to connect frustration with stopping learning, rather than
leading the frustration into curiosity or desire.

 
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another motivational post
 

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Feelin' this thread, as I do with all Chahee threads.

I usually get high in some way to feel away from frustrations.
Be it from sugar, or music or in between.

Once I get frustrated, it's hard to not sink deeper into anger and despair.
So I do a pre emptive plan, to make sure I don't start towards that cycle.
 
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