Were you ever bullied ? (1 Viewer)

[JoanaIsHere]

I was elementary to 7th grade, there’s one experience that still extremely bothers me

 

[Belgizen]

yes

 

[Ahsoka]

I'm sorry that happened to you.
I had the same rumor spread about me too. It's not wrong but I wasnt out to anyone due to family issues so it was hard for me.

 

[wayvoutsold]

Yes, all throughout elementary and middle school.

 

[MinMint_Swagist]

24/7 and now

 

[JoanaIsHere]

I'm sorry that happened to you.
I had the same rumor spread about me too. It's not wrong but I wasnt out to anyone due to family issues so it was hard for me.

It sucks extremely bad. Sorry about that happened to you too, people can be cruel sometimes

 

[dark_tranquility]

I was bullied severely in school, throughout primary and high school.
I actually ended school 2 years early, because I was sick of being made fun of.

And it was a racial thing, so because of what I looked and sounded like.

they were just jealous because I was super attractive and they were grotesque and ugly people.
ugly on the inside and out.

 

[honeyfornomoney]

When I was 6th grade there was that one boy who kept calling me names but I was just like "ok" (it actually bothered me tons, but yeah, acting) and he left me alone lol later there was a girl who tried to provoke an emotional reaction in me so that I'd flip at her and then she would have an excuse to keep going, but I talked to her as if I'm her friend lmao and guess what? We got along :p

 

[izcream]

they were just jealous because I was super attractive and they were grotesque and ugly people.

very attractive indeed

 

[dark_tranquility]

very attractive indeed

Thank you. that means a lot. you're a sweetie <3

 

[izcream]

Thank you. that means a lot. you're a sweetie <3

 

[Mew]

Yeah.. From 4 to 8...I started fighting the boys who were irritating and insulting me and then it kinda became fun (fighting them, and hurting them back) I was more outcasted by the girls not popular and all that (Although there was one time where they started playing with me because the new boy liked me.. =_=) then I moved school and became a bully to a specfic kid, at first I was nice to him but then he was really obsessed with me and wouldnt leave me alone, I kinda thought you know I'm going hurt your feelings till you leave me alone...he didn't for a while.
It's crazy though him and his friend started talking to me on fb like 10 years ago. I apologised to him and he was 'nah, I was really creepy to you, I was always trying to sniff you hair and touch you (not inappropriately just like shoulder and hand stuff so he said lol) so Its not like I didn't deserve it,'
the hair part I didn't know.. Like he was legit creepy, I remember I hit him one time and he call me a queen...(he said other stuff... Dont want to mention them though) Like dude were 9...to early for that sub bdsm shit.

I suppose it doesn't count as proper bullying but to me it does since my intent was to make him feel bad about himself as well as leave me alone.

I have alot of insults hurled at me before that, backhanded racial ones mainly. It stopped for a bit when I moved school, then I was known as metal mouth, Jaws etc when I got my braces in the last year of primary school... The guy that teased me the most about it ended up getting braces a month later lol I laughed hard at him.
Kids are cruel under 12...after that not mucg bullying really although going to an all girls school for secondary did fuck with my head... It just wasnt that nice of a place tbh. Alot of venom.

My skin became pretty thick by time I was 6ish hence I started fighting back, although I was pretty withdrawn, but that was more because of how racially verbally abusive adults were to me and my family especially to my brother cause of his more severe autism when we were younger, I fought alot for him because he was singled out in my first primary school the guys where always trying to beat him up, it was the reason why we moved school to where I became a bully to that one kid.

 

[JoanaIsHere]

Yeah.. From 4 to 8...I started fights the boys who were irritating me and then it kinda became fun (fighting them, and hurting them back) I was more emotionally outcasted by the girls not popular and all that (Although there was one time where they started playing with me because the new boy liked me.. =_=) then I moved school and became a bully to a specfic kid, at first I was nice to him but then he was really obsessed with me and wouldnt leave me alone, I kinda thought you know I'm going hurt your feelings till you leave me alone...he didn't for a while.
It's crazy though him and his friend started talking to me on fb like 10 years ago. I apologised to him and he was 'nah, I was really creepy to you, I was always trying to sniff you hair and touch you (not inappropriately just like shoulder and hand stuff so he said lol) so Its not like I didn't deserve it,'
the hair part I didn't know.. Like he was legit creepy, I remember I hit him on time and he call me a queen... Like dude were 9...to early for that sub bdsm shit.

I suppose it doesn't count as proper bullying but to me it does since my intent was to make him feel bad about himself as well as leave me alone.

I have alot of insults hurled at me before that, backhanded racially mainly. It stopped for a bit when I moved school, then I was know by metal mouth, Jaws etc when I got my braces in the last year of primary school... The guy that teased me the most about it ended up getting braces a month later lol a laughed hard at him.
Kids are cruel under 12...after that not for bullying really although going to an all girls school did fuck with my head... It just was that nice of a place tbh.

My skin became pretty thich by the I was 6ish hence I started fighting back, although I was pretty withdrawn, but more it was how racially verbal abusive adults were to me and my family especially to my brother cause of his more severe autism, I fought alot for him because he was singled out im my first primary school the guys where always trying to beat him up, it was the reason why we moved school to where I became a bully to that one kid.

Racial bullying is probably one of the worst kinds of bullying. I’m as pale as a piece of paper but there’s are some black kids in my school that get bullied a lot. There’s one girl who’s extremely nice too but ig that’s life.

 

[Mew]

Racial bullying is probably one of the worst kinds of bullying. I’m as pale as a piece of paper but there’s are some black kids in my school that get bullied a lot. There’s one girl who’s extremely nice too but ig that’s life.

I think because it happened alot it didn't phase me much when people my age did it at the time, but when adults did it. Like what can you do as a 5 to 10 year old, you can't fight them back it kinda just wears you down, like I'm just a kid and you're a grown up... It was shit honestly, I still felt worse for my younger brother because he didn't understand why people where trying to hurt him so he get lured into a stituation where they would try to beat him up at school (they got him to play football one time as goalie and started kicking balls at him, he dodged pretty well apparently someone called me so I ran across from the other side of the playground to stop their bs) but I'd never let them touch him, my brother learned to run to me after a while when he felt danger.

 

[JoanaIsHere]

I think because it happened alot it didn't phase me much when people my age did it at the time, but when adults did it. Like what can you do as a 5 to 10 year old, you can't fight them back it kinda just wears you down, like I'm just a kid and you're a grown up... It was shit honestly, I still felt worse for my younger brother because he didn't understand why people where trying to hurt him so he get lured into a stituation where they would try to beat him up at school (they got him to play football one time as goalie and started kicking balls at him, he dodged pretty well apparently someone called me so I ran across from the other side of the playground to stop their bs) but I'd never let them touch him, my brother learned to run to me after a while when he felt danger.

That’s good he knew when to leave the situation but jesus, sports are the worst when you get bullied. It makes it even worse when they intentionally try to harm you and the teachers support it. I feel like adults are mainly apart of the problem to why that even happens. A lot of kids get hit for punishment so it comes off as it’s okay to hurt others when they make you mad

 

[RandAlThor]

Sure alot mostly before high school but.
heck i broke a dudes nose one punch in pe 7th grade after he was crushing my glasses into my face, and after he stopped hitting me(no damage). the coach told him to be nice or he would let me loose again lol.

 

[DrowningFishy]

Yes from 5th grade (when I got out of christian schools) to end of junior year when I got black out angry and slammed a kid one armed into a locker denting the locker. I don't know what was said or what they did, only having against the locker with one arm and everyone in the hallway looking mortified.

 

[potato]

Yep, in my last year of primary school (10-11). I had moved schools so everything was a new environment at the time. When I was younger, I was quite clever so I was moved to the 'top' tables (where all the smart people would be) pretty quickly. The smart people also ended up being the popular people/gang so I guess I felt like a threat to them. I ended up hanging out with them a lot even when I didn't want to because I was always grouped with them for every lesson. Most of them were pretty nice but there were a few mean ones. They would tease me a lot, not in a nice way, and make fun of me. They threatened me sometimes too. It wasn't too harsh but it was obvious that they disliked me and I was too innocent to realise it at the time. I remember feeling like they were always watching over me, even when I wasn't at school and laughing over every little thing that I did. It was a horrible feeling.

 

[JoanaIsHere]

Yep, in my last year of primary school (10-11). I had moved schools so everything was a new environment at the time. When I was younger, I was quite clever so I was moved to the 'top' tables (where all the smart people would be) pretty quickly. The smart people also ended up being the popular people/gang so I guess I felt like a threat to them. I ended up hanging out with them a lot even when I didn't want to because I was always grouped with them for every lesson. Most of them were pretty nice but there were a few mean ones. They would tease me a lot, not in a nice way, and make fun of me. They threatened me sometimes too. It wasn't too harsh but it was obvious that they disliked me and I was too innocent to realise it at the time. I remember feeling like they were always watching over me, even when I wasn't at school and laughing over every little thing that I did. It was a horrible feeling.

That feeling was that worst one. 10/10 wouldn't recommend again

One time my mom and her friend went out to this thing so I was hanging out at my friend's house. My friend and her friends already had plans so we called my mom to pick me up but nobody could so I had to go with. They went out to eat but they always blocked my path so I couldn't walk with them and when they took pictures together (I think this was 6th grade), they purposely left me out. I asked if I could be in one and one of the people felt bad so they took one with me but ended up deleting it right in front of me

 

[potato]

That feeling was that worst one. 10/10 wouldn't recommend again

One time my mom and her friend went out to this thing so I was hanging out at my friend's house. My friend and her friends already had plans so we called my mom to pick me up but nobody could so I had to go with. They went out to eat but they always blocked my path so I couldn't walk with them and when they took pictures together (I think this was 6th grade), they purposely left me out. I asked if I could be in one and one of the people felt bad so they took one with me but ended up deleting it right in front of me

I hope it over for you now and I'm so sorry that happened to you I'm glad we both got through it