What are your red flags when it comes to relationships? (1 Viewer)

[Myco]

Any immediate breakup reasons?

 

[brekker]

weird opinions, greediness, just generally being a jerk ... no, people are "not gonna get better" a jerk is a jerk, don´t be dumb and run away till there is time.

 

[Yili]

definitely if they tell me not to do something that is pretty innocent
if they tell me not to talk to one of my friends, don't go out for dinner, don't eat that etc

 

[Willow]

Cheating I guess but I have never been in any relationship

 

[Mew]

I haven't encountered one tbh so I don't really know... I would suppose off the far end it would have to been a deep disturbing secret they're keeping (like Being serial killer and sex offender, proven of course) end of relationship and police call striaght away.

I usually get to know people well before I start dating them. So thats probably why I haven't encountered alot of discourse or an extreme reason to terminate a relationship instantly.

 

[Tickita]

Assuming I didn't figure these things out before I decided to be with them:

Addiction to adult entertainment
Any type of abuse
Love bombing
Only form of communication is flirtation
Just plain negative, mean, and rude

 

[Abeamus]

Controlling behaviour would be the main thing that I might only end up figuring out when starting to date them

 

[KPawz]

Honestly if they just act like a decent human being there shouldn’t be a problem.

 

[raymondchouku]

Obviously the big things that have already been mentioned.. but if they are on the registry, I would investigate it first, since while odds are that they did something serious, it is possible to get on the registry for public urination. But I would not tolerate sexual abuse of children or really any sexual abuse. And a phrase from a film comes to me, "If a man hits me, he only does it once..."

I see a lot of people saying cheating, but... lets just say I have differing views on relationships, where cheating likely couldn't occur.

 

[QueenB]

certain political opinions
fanatically religious
rude to staff at places you go to

 

[Mangoey]

When they don't respect your boundaries or are passive aggressive/give backhanded comments