what do you consider your biggest failure? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

sorry about this not so cheery question, but I'm just curious hehe..

Spoiler: me

even though I know it's not true, I usually feel like everything in my life has been a failure and some days I feel like even my very existence is wrong, truthfully.. objectively tho, the thing that will most likely become my greatest regret at the end of my life, is probably the fact I haven't lived properly, I haven't lived fully and for myself..

 

[Seros]

Dropping out of college.

 

[jasque]

Still not being rich ig

 

[Willow]

My whole life is a failure 😩

 

[RandAlThor]

Failure to navigate the social mine field until my annoyance level was to the point that i wrote it all off as a waste of time.

:)

 

[TXT]

never fully developing good social skills, or common sense skills even, i just don't know how to navigate my environment

 

[JoanaIsHere]

I’m really awkward and space out a lot when I’m talking to people. I’m also really insecure about my personality for dumb reasons so yeee

 

[dark_tranquility]

Never really made dad proud of me. I always thinks he hates me, no matter what I do. ;___;
Been eating at me for years and still he doesn't acknowledge my existence.

 

[honeyfornomoney]

My non-existent love life

Crushes don't like me back because they are tasteless

 

[Loki]

Hm I think I have many failures, my whole existence as an example I am just never... I don't know I feel like I am not good? Sometimes...
But to pick one, I think I have a problem in trying to connect with people and I seem to be very distant sometimes, and even said to be cold by some other people, and I don't mean it, I am not cold, I just don't show my feelings? Specially positive ones I have big problems in showing good feelings I don't know why it's a shame because I am sure I've lost great friendships but it's worse when it's about the few close people from my family I always feel like I am a bad person here sometimes like I don't belong simply because I am bad at showing good moments? But when it come to bad feelings I am not that bad at showing them I feel like it's just easy to show my negative feelings and sometimes it can lead to have bad moments being in more highlight? I am sorry if this is confusing it's not that easy to explain.
I am a failure at showing good feelings, and this literally kills me, because it also can kinda hurt me too, I don't like having this issue.

 

[blueberries]

Choosing wrong field to study in the uni, well i have become more okay with it lately cause i got good intership place while ago i loved, but its just rly hard field to actually find work in.

That and procastinating my masters thesis, i rly need to do it

 

[Willow]

My non-existent love life

Crushes don't like me back because they are tasteless

Me too 😩😩😩

 

[blueberries]

My non-existent love life

Crushes don't like me back because they are tasteless

wouldn't it be nice if even once the person who you are crushing on actually liked u back.. why don't these ever match

 

[honeyfornomoney]

wouldn't it be nice if even once the person who you are crushing on actually liked u back.. why don't these ever match

This happens only in movies

But yeahhhh imagine if it actually happens omg I would cry

Me too 😩😩😩

But dw peeps, there is someone in the world who has taste and will lofe us back one daayyy <3333333

 

[perhapz]

Being average on everything, but not superb on anything. Like those players in sports who can play multiple positions, but there's always someone that is better than him on a specific matter.

Idk, it feels like I always fail to become really good at something.