What Do You Hate Having Someone Do For You? (1 Viewer)

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I hate having others clean up my messes.
It is one of the most uncomfortable feelings ever for me.
Once in high school, an ex-friend of mine spilled her sauce on the cafeteria floor.
I was like, "Aren't you going to clean that up?"
She was essentially like that's the janitor's job.
I told her off, we fought about it because I was flabbergasted
that someone would be THAT immature
to EXPECT someone to clean up after them.

I know in high school we aren't fully developed up there but damn
it showed how...pompous that friend was and I"m so glad we are no longer friends.
The thought of being ok with that makes me so UNCOMFORTABLE.

What About You?​

 

[mysteric]

unless I really don't know how to deal with it, yes
even then, I'm usually pretty stubborn on not wanting help
not a great thing tbh

 

[milk]

idk if this counts but I hate when people try to "educate" me on stuff I already know how to do

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

idk if this counts but I hate when people try to "educate" me on stuff I already know how to do

I think it counts so I'll let it slide.

 

[Myco]

I haven't had someone do something for me in a very long time lol so I can't really say
But maybe just someone who thinks they know better than me correcting me in general?

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I haven't had someone do something for me in a very long time lol so I can't really say
But maybe just someone who thinks they know better than me correcting me in general?

Common theme I think

 

[Yili]

i don't like people buying me gifts for no reason irl it makes me feel uncomfortable, here it's ok bc it's usually just a card or a drawing but spending actual money is like oof no thanks it makes me uncomfortable

 

[SHlNEE]

I hate having others clean up my messes.
It is one of the most uncomfortable feelings ever for me.
Once in high school, an ex-friend of mine spilled her sauce on the cafeteria floor.
I was like, "Aren't you going to clean that up?"
She was essentially like that's the janitor's job.
I told her off, we fought about it because I was flabbergasted
that someone would be THAT immature
to EXPECT someone to clean up after them.

I know in high school we aren't fully developed up there but damn
it showed how...pompous that friend was and I"m so glad we are no longer friends.
The thought of being ok with that makes me so UNCOMFORTABLE.

What About You?​

well technically they are not wrong
they do get paid to clean the school right?

BUT
this little B just is entitled and lazy
good thing you left that behind you

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

well technically they are not wrong
they do get paid to clean the school right?

BUT
this little B just is entitled and lazy
good thing you left that behind you

They are more there in my opinion to make the place presentable which is taking care of regular wear and tear, like footprints, mold, and stuff like that not necessarily meant to clean up a simple spill that a teenager could easily clean up. Also, they're there to help take care of some maintenance issues and puke too.

Also the janitor at my high school was an angel of a man. I think that also made me all the more angry with her.

 

[Wicked]

My laundry.
For some reason, I despise when people try to do my laundry.
I can do it myself, thanks.

 

[raymondchouku]

Living in a state that is known to have roach problems, I would feel uncomfortable with someone leaving any food product out longer than a few minutes. Unless your home is immaculate roaches will come for you in the area I live. lol. But something that could be cleaned with a napkin would be dumb to bother the janitor with... If it were something like a drink or something big that would require a mop then I would see deferring to the janitor...

But since I share a Netflix account with certain people, I don't like certain people going through my recently watched who I know will bring it up later... Like so what I watched the og magic school bus recently... Get over it. lmao... People who like to touch things in my room without permission is also a bit uncomfortable. I am a bit neurotic, but I don't want people touching and acting like they can move things around in my room...

Lastly, I don't like getting gifts, because most people I get gifts from irl tend to get me gifts that literally cost $0.50 cents and no one will use... and I'm expected to be happy about it... Like, "Wow. I've always wanted RCA cords that I can't possibly use, because I don't have a TV from 2002.." lol

 

[Angel1]

I hate not cleaning up after myself or having someone do something for me, it makes me feel like I’m unable to take care of myself or something(idk how to describe it lol). Good job at telling that friend of yours off, I would’ve done the same

People getting me gifts or something. Tbh there’s no one in my life that rlly knows me or what I like so they just usually get what most teenage girls like and it makes me feel awkward because like, thank you for the thought but I don’t want this. I never say it out loud tho, I don’t want to hurt their feelings

Sometimes, if I ask for help on my hw or have a partner assignment, they would just give me the answers which I hate. I take pride in my intelligence and it just makes me feel dumb

Having someone get something for me that I’m able to do myself, it makes me feel lazy which I hate

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I hate not cleaning up after myself or having someone do something for me, it makes me feel like I’m unable to take care of myself or something(idk how to describe it lol). Good job at telling that friend of yours off, I would’ve done the same

People getting me gifts or something. Tbh there’s no one in my life that rlly knows me or what I like so they just usually get what most teenage girls like and it makes me feel awkward because like, thank you for the thought but I don’t want this. I never say it out loud tho, I don’t want to hurt their feelings

Sometimes, if I ask for help on my hw or have a partner assignment, they would just give me the answers which I hate. I take pride in my intelligence and it just makes me feel dumb

Having someone get something for me that I’m able to do myself, it makes me feel lazy which I hate

I feel this so hard

 

[Tickita]

Everything, honestly