What is your relationship with yourself like? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

Do you like or dislike yourself? what do you struggle with the most when it comes to being "you"?

Spoiler: me

I used to hate my own guts to the point where being me was unbearable lol, but I've come a long way from that... now I'm okay with some parts of me, others I am still trying to change.......maybe I manage to improve and find a way to be okay with myself, maybe I struggle forever, who knows.. I'm often too hard on myself and make things harder than they should be but I can't help it, but I'm also proud of some things about myself hehe..

 

[Jungkook]

I'm very meh about myself

Ik I'm not terrible
But I still have room for a lot of improvement

 

[kodoku]

I'm very meh about myself

Ik I'm not terrible
But I still have room for a lot of improvement

don't we all? :) I'm sure you will get there <3

 

[DrowningFishy]

It's a love hate relationship. I love being me, but I hate everything that is me.

 

[GloriousHavoc]

Sometimes I do fangirl over myself

 

[Myco]

 

[honeyfornomoney]

If I was someone else I would have been head over heels in love with me, hope that answers the question :P
tho there is still what to work on ofc

 

[Kelly]

Overall, I don't like myself. But I think I'm on the path to accepting who I am... I go back and forth between "I'm alright I guess" and "wow I don't like myself". I'm working on that. I still have a long way to go, but I can already see some improvements. I doubt I will ever reach the stage where I can say "I like me" or "I like being me", but as long as I can live as myself and not beat myself up about it every day, then that's something. I think my goal is to have a relationship with myself where I feel at completely peace with who I am, and maybe I'll eventually get there.

 

[blurryface]

-hey idiot
+hey me
- you seem ugly today
+ thank you i love you too

 

[Willow]

I don’t like myself at all honestly ...

 

[lexus]

I have a love/hate relationship with myself. More on the dislike side though. It’s just hard to learn how to like yourself.

 

[Jichuus]

It was love hate and sometimes it still is. Because of my background, I sometimes find it hard to verbally communicate what I feel and a lot of times it’s misinterpreted. So much to the point it destroyed my self confidence. I’ve always struggled with being the backup friend and it still happens to me (always second best).

But I’ve come to realize that what matters is how I view myself. I started going off on my own and exploring and doing things I wanted to do not for others. It’s okay and I do think things will get better.

 

[Walnutt]

It's gotten better but I'm still working on it

 

[bulletproof]

I guess I have some moments when I am harsh with myself, but then I remember that the only way I can change the things I don't like is to work harder So I guess I am good most of the times lately, I try to motivate myself and all even if I still have things I'd change

 

[jasque]

I'm fine, I wouldn't complain if I won the lottery though

 

[Foxia]

I dislike myself, but Im working on it..

 

[raymondchouku]

I only really think about myself in relation to others... For instance, I may surround myself, irl, with idiots and have a noxious relationship with them, because I like feeling like I am the smartest one in the room, which isn't hard when looking at my CV. But a breakdown is necessary to answer my question; how I feel about myself:

1. Intellect: 90%. I am very smart and know it and will make others know it.
2. Physical: 82-85%. Reasonably attractive. Symmetrical Face. No abnormalities. Nice teeth. Tall.
3. Personality: 60%. Generally I am nice-ish. But there are noticeable flaws in how I present myself (i.e. Inflated sense of self, neurotic, Messy, gossip monger, etc.), that I most likely will never change.
4. Motivation: 40%. It is really hard for me to get motivated to do something I find tedious or boring or annoying. This could range from work/academic activities, to more mundane and/or entertainment activities.
5. Morals: 20%. This is last of the list, because, well, my morals tend to be like the wind. If I need to be a certain way to achieve a goal then I will do that even if my organic morals (the ones that I actually believe in) must be briefly forgotten. For instance, I spent 9 months faking my sincerity of wanting to become part of an organization to get initiated only because my family was part of the organization. That is probably the most extreme of examples.

Thus, I have a favorable view of myself, with the exception of my malleable sense of morality, and being a dick on a regular occasion, as well as lacking motivation to start/complete certain tasks.

 

[colorfulteardrop]

At some point in my life I thought very poorly of myself. It wasn't hate, but I didn't know how to handle some things. Now, years later, I accepted myself. Ofc there are still room for improvement, but I can atleast look in the mirror

 

[NASA]

I love myself. Sometimes I get mad at myself and say I hate myself and call myself a stupid bitch but really I love myself