What's the hardest conversation you've had? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

Spoiler: me

for me it's probably trying to talk to my father at times, I was really scared and it never really worked out for us..😅

 

[mysteric]

Anything involving work not done/late and teachers. I’m terrified of pretty much everything.

 

[kuro]

anything with my mom for about one year, now we're ok <3

 

[Hajima]

hmmmm that guy i had a crush on i can be very obvious ... good shit i left that job....

 

[jasque]

Defending my graduation thesis

It was like one episode of The Apprentice

 

[igloo]

When I forged my report card.
Oh boy.
I mean when i hit a kid with a rock that was pretty bad too but yea nothing compared to that omfg.
I mean there was another lie and that convo was bad.
Ig just the 2 times i've been caught in a really bad lie.

 

[wayvoutsold]

When I told my parents I was bi, it was hard for me because they aren’t very open to anything other than a girl and a boy.

 

[Belgizen]

Trying to convince a soccer player how being an equestrian is way more dangerous than playing soccer.

Yea, controlling a 500-600 kilogram animal with an own will and possibly kill you is less dangerous than running after a ball.

 

[Mew]

probably one the many conversations I had with my mother, when she went into the psychiatric ward several times. The 3rd time she purposely didn't take her medication..because she wanted to lose weight, find a man and get married...in which we narrowly avoided being put in care.

 

[perhapz]

I think it was some years ago when my grandpa passed away and I was in charge to tell my little sister (who was really really close to him) about it. Obviously I didn't spit it out to her straightly, but it was so hard to find the proper way to do so and to confort her after she realized what had happened.

 

[Deleted member 74]

The conversations I had with my mom when she went through a rough time last year, and she only opened up to me
It was hard getting her to stay that way with me and knowing what to say, and what not to say

 

[Jimimis]

Mom can I have tickets for a bts concert? They’re only like $500

 

[ripiasuju]

Honestly the hardest one irl was asking my music teacher if I can leave her class.

I was her star pupil.. was bragged about me she loved me like her son. And. I just wanted to act she literally never talked to me after that she didnt even accept my fb friend request.

I dont regret it because I got really high Mark's in drama after.. but it was just very hard to ask her. She screamed at me in front of the whole class it was so embarrassing.

Hardest in text ... sounds cliche but confessing to my first love that took every bit of courage it had in me to do it. Haha. She had a bf at the time tho so that made it easier I knew she was off the market.

 

[JakeyWantsCakey]

There have been a few (unfortunately my family has a lot of drama) but I feel like the hardest one was when my mum told me that she was forced to give a baby up for adoption when she was 15 and that my eldest brother had a different biological father than the rest of us. My middle brother has a lot of drug problems and at the time he was really acting up and causing a lot of drama so my mum basically had to tell me about everything because she didn't want someone else to tell me in a spiteful way...

It didn't change anything about the way I thought of my brother but it took a little while for me to wrap my head around the whole long lost, half sibling thing. It was just really hard to watch my mum recount all of these really traumatic memories and seeing a lot of the shame and guilt she had been carrying around with her for pretty much her whole life, it really gave me a new understanding of why she reacts to some things in a certain way and it probably made me more compassionate towards her in general.

 

[Sory]

Saying goodbye to my best friend and trying to keep a level head while she was begging me, crying and threatening me to kill herself. But the relationship had become toxic and co-dependent. I had to have a break from it all. But it’s cool,since we’re in speaking terms again.


Announcing the death of our mom to my sister by phone, and saying to my brother he should rush to the hospital because she didn’t have much time left was really difficult too.

 

[melancholia]

Telling my father about what’s going on in my head. I told him how I felt and it was hard.