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What's the point of trying to like a group? (1 Viewer)

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I've seen a lot of people say that they tried to like x group or y group, but I don't understand why. If they're not your type why try to force yourself to like them? As long as you're not hating on them I think not caring for them is fine. Forcing yourself to like something thats not your type seems so unnecessary to me personally.
 
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I always felt the same way. It's not a big deal after all and if you don't enjoy it, just leave it and stick to other things 😅
 

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for me I tried to get into Ateez!

I like their music so I wanted to like... get to know them better, but in the end none of the members appealed to me at all....
 

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Tbh, in my case, I enjoy lots of groups who have consistent bops but some of them aren't that interesting for me to keep up with them. I love NOIR, Dreamcatcher, D-CRUNCH and many others but I sometimes just forget they exist.

For some reason, the group just doesn't really pull me in. The members aren't interesting enough for me.
 
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they seem cool and like something you’d stan but then you look into it and nah
 

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I'm guilty of this to some extent. When I originally knew of Kard, I really wanted to like them; but I didn't like their tropical house sound. I'm not totally guilty of this however. I didn't actually forced myself. I did like their music after months, so then I became a casual fan. However, they changed their sound to the worst possible; so I forgot about them.
 

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The same reason people try to force themselves to like BTS or Blackpink. They just want to be apart of the in crowd.
 

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I’m actually guilty of trying to make myself like a group. For example, I’ve tried getting myself to like Gfriend and to stan Twice, but it was to no avail. For Gfriend their music just doesn’t do it for me. I find a lot of their music to be boring. As for Twice, I do like most of their title tracks and some bsides, but when it comes to the members, I just can’t click with them (except Mina).
 

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What I usually mean by when I say 'I tried to get into a group', I mean I tried listening to more of their music and it did/didn't appeal to me. I didn't really know it mean something else other than that :dubuthink:
 
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I can be the same way but I honestly try to stress sorta less about these things. I just gotta love what I love
 

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sometimes it works :rosesmug: it's how i got into got7 and ateez. I didn't like got7's music, but I tried to like them because of their personalities and it worked. Also helped that they released a whole bop You Calling My Name. Ateez was the complete opposite. I didn't really like them personally but I loved their music, and soon I stanned them.

i think sometimes it's okay to try to like a group, and sometimes it's not as okay. It's personal preference I think. Just as long as you're not trying to stan a group because everyone else is.
 

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In my case it's because they're so pretty

It never works as expected though
 

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