Everyone has pet peeves, flaws, and things that make us side eye. But, we also have things that we don’t want in relationships to look for, or have.
My biggest red flag that I make sure is always in my boundaries is I do not like having bullies, or people who normalize toxic verbal communication in my relationships, or friends.
I Rejected someone recently because they told me the reason they liked making fun of a specific person is because they get “upset”. I would even see this person post really bad comments when they uploaded pictures and and make fun of the stuff they liked and wore. It even got to the point it was physical. The guy then told me I was being too sensitive because I said I didn’t want to date a bully. My groupchat and I roast each other and poke at each other, but we absolutely stay away from Trauma’s and physical traits we don’t feel confident in unless we poke at ourselves.
People can state it’s being sensitive, but I believe everyone should have a basic level of respect unless they absolutely did not earn, or keep it. Then I just ignore. I’ve always been confrontational. So, I have no problem calling it out.
What’s your red flags?
My biggest red flag that I make sure is always in my boundaries is I do not like having bullies, or people who normalize toxic verbal communication in my relationships, or friends.
I Rejected someone recently because they told me the reason they liked making fun of a specific person is because they get “upset”. I would even see this person post really bad comments when they uploaded pictures and and make fun of the stuff they liked and wore. It even got to the point it was physical. The guy then told me I was being too sensitive because I said I didn’t want to date a bully. My groupchat and I roast each other and poke at each other, but we absolutely stay away from Trauma’s and physical traits we don’t feel confident in unless we poke at ourselves.
People can state it’s being sensitive, but I believe everyone should have a basic level of respect unless they absolutely did not earn, or keep it. Then I just ignore. I’ve always been confrontational. So, I have no problem calling it out.
What’s your red flags?