which type are you? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

once someone harms you, purposely or not...... do you let them go, wishing them well.. or do you try to punish them and seek "justice"? I am definitely the first type, even if I don't believe in karma and don't expect the person to ever "pay" or even learn their lesson, I wouldn't be able to bring myself to hurt someone on purpose or choose revenge.... so i just let it go wishing peace for both them and myself..

 

[blueberries]

I'm not one who seeks revenge per say, but I'm also not someone who lets things go. If someone wrongs me i will hold them against them, and quite while.

 

[dooh]

hmmmm, if i have the chance to revenge, hmmm yes second one for sure

 

[honeyfornomoney]

I really wanna do something to get my revenge, but whenever I get the chance I'm like ;-;

 

[potato]

I feel like I forgive people too easily.

 

[yminsane]

if i can stop them from harming me , ill surely do , but if it is too late , i seek my own revenge , to not get affected , to not give them the chance to achieve what they want . To be the best
that's it hahahahahahahahahahaha , and i like when people hate me for it hahahahahahahahaahahahaha

 

[yeji]

If someone harms me in a way I will keep thinking about it for a while. I do basically let go but to forgive completely can be tough. I for sure gotta get better at it

 

[RandAlThor]

bullet to the head then its all forgiven ......



Jk usually i just move on they and their lives are so full miserableness already i do not need to wish more ill on them.
But if they want forgiveness there is this dude i have heard about they can talk with him. What they do hams them and to a point only harms me as much as i let it.

 

[Mew]

Hard to say, I'm not one to be hurt easily by others. It all depends, usually it's discussed and sorted out which means whatever relationship we have will continue given a warning or we just part ways.

Revenge for me isn't something I would take lightly, if it ever came to that it would to the point where for the person I'm seeking revenge on it would hurt them to even breath, because they are so broken mentally by me... Its a path that I mostly won't use as someone would have to hurt me to a point that all rationality is lost but I don't see that happening.

 

[jasque]

Depends, if it annoys me a lot I try to make them feel annoyed as well

 

[lostinwvnderland]

When I was younger I definitely not the type to let it go and would seek revenge, but now as an adult it just not worth it.

 

[Deleted member 74]

I hold my anger and hurt in until I'm too tired to hold on anymore, then I let it go wishing that person all the best for their lives. But I don't exactly do this happily, it's just the healthiest option for my soul. I do believe in Karma, you get what you give eventually, whether it's here on Earth or in a form of afterlife.
I've learnt my lesson with revenge, you can't hurt people who don't care about you.

 

[Michael]

I'm not sure there is something that may be called karma. I just refrain from taking revenge because it may come back to harm me is there is such a thing. However, I take measures to avoid future harm if possible; which could mean to immediately cut ties with the traitor.

 

[Darkseid]

Not forgiveness, but unless it's really bad I don't pursue revenge either. Waste of time and effort. But I hold a grudge, definitely.

 

[Skinnny]

Not forgiveness, but unless it's really bad I don't pursue revenge either. Waste of time and effort. But I hold a grudge, definitely.

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