Would you forgive someone who has hurt or betrayed you? (1 Viewer)

[emptycup]

No.
I don't forgive nor forget. I just remove them from my life and move on.
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[ripiasuju]

Ofc I would. And i have. However depending on the severity.

I believe in forgiveness I do. God forgives us every day and he doesnt need to but he does and if we cant show the same to others then how can we expect it.

However I do have a limit. And there are a few that you must not reach. I cant forgive as easy on others behalf. But never become my enemy. When I snap I really snap. And you wont like that side of me.

 

[ripiasuju]

I like to say I’m forgiving but honestly once someone hurts me whether they know it or not, I just shut down. You won’t catch me trusting you again or showing you parts of myself I once trusted you with. I can eventually forgive and let things go but I’ll never forget it, and it’ll show.

Question I've not hurt you before right? I know there was that one time you didnt like how I imply you werent being a loyal friend or something like that, but we were still good right?

Or have you secretly held it against me all along :o omg my life is a lie if you did.

 

[mysteric]

Hell no. I rarely truly trust people, so when you break that trust I gave you, it’s game over. I’m not going to get hurt more.

But if it’s for something small, I’m a weird mix between forgive and forget and forget and forgive

 

[Discipline]

I don't really forgive, I move on, but each time I move on, the less that I trust the person and the less I talk to them. Eventually it reaches a point where I just wont message them. I just let the people push me away instead of concerning myself with whether i should forgive or not. This is mostly to do with my attitude though, don't apologise if you don't mean it, say less and do more. Words are words, but real forgiveness can be sought if you don't repeat the mistakes that upset the person in the first place.

 

[Minuteman]

I'm the kind of person who has a hard time holding grudges, but will hold a grudge for a really long time if I have one. So in many cases, it's easy for me to forgive and try to move on. But most of the time, it's hard to truly forget. Even though things will be all good, I'll have the thoughts there, lingering in the back of my mind, waiting to come back from time to time. In cases where it's really bad, I try to cut things off rather than let things continue with the fear of being hurt again.

 

[baekk]

No, but if it's a family member I would address the situation and talk about it. I don't know if I would forgive that person but at least it will be resolved.

 

[Deleted member 74]

Question I've not hurt you before right? I know there was that one time you didnt like how I imply you werent being a loyal friend or something like that, but we were still good right?

Or have you secretly held it against me all along :o omg my life is a lie if you did.

No, you haven’t
We were still good at the time~

 

[ripiasuju]

No, you haven’t
We were still good at the time~

Good let's keep it clear always also.