You ever feel like you have to act much nicer than you want to in the Kpop Community? (1 Viewer)

[Panda]

Like, you ever hold back your actual unpopular opinions cause they are actually rude?

Cause I do that all the time. I have so many opinions that people would actually hate me for. I'm not even sure if I would break some rules cause I'm pretty sure some of it is considering hating on groups and companies. But yeah...

 

[Ahsoka]

Not anymore

 

[Panda]

Not anymore

says the mod

 

[Ahsoka]

says the mod

Im just naturally nice and innocent

 

[Panda]

Im just naturally nice and innocent

true that, no clue why you would be friends with me, I have become anything but an angel

 

[Ahsoka]

true that, no clue why you would be friends with me, I have become anything but an angel

I think I have exactly one opinion that could get me banned from here and I just dont say it because I shouldn't. But I say it to people on other platforms and it luckly doesnt offend others

 

[QueenB]

yeah, I just don't want to deal with defending myself sometimes. Like I know it's irrational to dislike an idol because of their voice I don't need anybody getting mad at me and telling me that lol

Recently, I saw someone on twitter say there are no boy groups where all members were visuals and I was amazed by the bravery

 

[Suzy]

On other forums I used to because people didn't handle opposing opinions well but now I say whether I like or hate something. Obviously if I think something is too mean, I'll rewrite it so that it's not offensive but overall I just say what I think and feel.

 

[dark_tranquility]

All those types of opinions I keep to myself, if they ever existed in the first place that is.
I say what I feel, but I am never mean spirited about it.

I am too timid, to have an actual opinion on anything that would cause dislike anyways : x

 

[daesuki]

no i agree with everyone even if i don't agree really, unless they're my friends. Even then, I try to agree with them on at least one thing because I hate arguments

 

[Panda]

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I think I have exactly one opinion that could get me banned from here and I just dont say it because I shouldn't. But I say it to people on other platforms and it luckly doesnt offend others

do I know of what you're talking about? <.<

 

[Ahsoka]

d

do I know of what you're talking about? <.<

I dont think so?

 

[VillageIdiot]

Definitely

 

[Panda]

I dont think so?

not as close as we thought we were, huh..

 

[Ahsoka]

not as close as we thought we were, huh..

I mean it's not an opinion that comes up often, you not knowing it is like the equivilant of you not knowing my favorite type of pie

 

[raymondchouku]

My view on this is similar to @Petra_the_Poetic and I feel that much of my opinions come from the fact that I am older than 80 percent of any k pop forum... The only one who I know who is older is @DrewB ... I believe he is in his second century of life 😅 .. Anyway, much of the opinions I have about k-pop that are unpopular are things that a lot of us think about, but compartmentalize it, such as how real k-pop is. Is [enter idol here] really that kind of a person or is he/she marketed as such and under the influence of the agency to act a particular way. Or even when a group loses members or disbands, it is common for stans (not all) to have mini-meltdowns and I try my hardest not to roll my eyes at the histrionics..

But most of my opinions that other kps members would hate me for have nothing to do with k-pop. Think of @Jimimis opinions... Except I'm better at not expressing my opinions😅

 

[izcream]

ngl yes , theres so many things that i want to say but i've been holding it back in case it gets messy

 

[TRAUMATHON]

not really, i am naturally the nicest person you will meet

 

[Jimimis]

My view on this is similar to @Petra_the_Poetic and I feel that much of my opinions come from the fact that I am older than 80 percent of any k pop forum... The only one who I know who is older is @DrewB ... I believe he is in his second century of life 😅 .. Anyway, much of the opinions I have about k-pop that are unpopular are things that a lot of us think about, but compartmentalize it, such as how real k-pop is. Is [enter idol here] really that kind of a person or is he/she marketed as such and under the influence of the agency to act a particular way. Or even when a group loses members or disbands, it is common for stans (not all) to have mini-meltdowns and I try my hardest not to roll my eyes at the histrionics..

But most of my opinions that other kps members would hate me for have nothing to do with k-pop. Think of @Jimimis opinions... Except I'm better at not expressing my opinions😅

Boy you don’t even know half of it i am tame

 

[Sourcekeeper]

i feel like its not exclusive to just kpop for me, i apply it to pretty much everything, those of you who have known me for almost 2 years call me a gentle flower but its been that way for me all my life & i always decide to double check or triple check what i say cause i don't want to hurt somebody, maybe its not a good way to live my life but i feel good knowing i am not hurting somebody else.