How do I get my friends to talk to me after they're mad at me for things I do wrong? (1 Viewer)

[victorious]

so every time I go off on friends' friends, or do or say something wrong, they would block me every where, tell everyone around them about what I said or did, make every one ignore me and I tried to find different ways to get them to talk to me and nothing worked. They don't have to ignore me for a very long time. I wish they would just unblock me and talk to me. I would never get them to talk to me over something I said or did. I wished never said or did something wrong to them and I would've kept my friends forever and for life. What should I do?

 

[Day]

Can I ask what was said to them in the first place or how bad it was? If it's something serious/sensitive, it's possible their immediate response is to cut you off. Some people are like that with sensitive topics, and you can't really do anything to fix that. Even if you want to apologize, sometimes people are not receptive to hearing it after you crossed a line with them.

 

[victorious]

Can I ask what was said to them in the first place or how bad it was? If it's something serious/sensitive, it's possible their immediate response is to cut you off. Some people are like that with sensitive topics, and you can't really do anything to fix that. Even if you want to apologize, sometimes people are not receptive to hearing it after you crossed a line with them.

just about anything mean like threatening them

 

[Day]

just about anything mean like make threats to them

You threatened your friends?

 

[victorious]

You threatened your friends?

yea if they said something mean to me like telling me to stop talking to them out of nowhere or cuss at me or just block me out of nowhere when im trying to be nice

 

[Day]

yea if they said something mean to me like telling me to stop talking to them out of nowhere or cuss at me or just block me out of nowhere when im trying to be nice

I think you need better friends. Maybe it's time to accept the closure they gave you, even if it feels unfair, and move on. Threatening people is not the way to go. They chose to leave your life, let them.

 

[victorious]

I think you need better friends. Maybe it's time to accept the closure they gave you, even if it feels unfair, and move on. Threatening people is not the way to go. They chose to leave your life, let them.

thank you. I will avoid threatening people in the future

 

[dark_tranquility]

They aren't your friends if they ditch you like that.
Always more fish in the sea.

you must have put through the hard yards
to end up threatening.

it's on you.
but people change too.