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… asking what’s so bad about smoking when pregnant :face:
 

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what makes it 10x worse is that someone said that they would smoke even if they were pregnant
that's their choice as long as they're willing to deal with the potential outcome. i don't know why some people have that mindset, but i knew a few girls who said they would continue to do certain things throughout a pregnancy.
im just going to assume they don't know the negative effects and its severity and move on.
 
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that's their choice as long as they're willing to deal with the potential outcome. i don't know why some people have that mindset, but i knew a few girls who said they would continue to do certain things throughout a pregnancy.
im just going to assume they don't know the negative effects and its severity and move on.
The issue is they’re not the only ones dealing with the potential outcome, the child is too. If my mom smoked or drank or whatever when pregnant with me and I found out when I grew up (especially if it caused me problems as a result) I know I’d be pissed no question :coronawimwim:
 
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The issue is they’re not the only ones dealing with the potential outcome, the child is too. If my mom smoked or drank or whatever when pregnant with me and I found out when I grew up (especially if it caused me problems as a result) I know I’d be pissed no question :coronawimwim:
i wish i knew what to say, but honestly there's not much we can do as a third person in that situation. of course its unfair, but all we can do is spread awareness and urge them subtly.
shit, i begged my dad to stop smoking around us when i was little and he put in little to no effort to change that. im not saying its okay- but again. what's done is done. you just have to figure it out after that. and sometimes its their own struggle as well, you don't always know the background. and like i said, if they're going through with the pregnancy then be ready to deal with the consequences.

what i will say is that the poc girl in my school that said she would give up the baby if they came out a certain way pissed me the fuck off. and she further thought it was okay because she had a disabled cousin. that was disgusting. mocking the results as if it wasn't the product of your own actions, is disgusting, acting as if that's not your issue to deal with is a terrible way of thinking.
 
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i wish i knew what to say, but honestly there's not much we can do as a third person in that situation. of course its unfair, but all we can do is spread awareness and urge them subtly.
shit, i begged my dad to stop smoking around us when i was little and he put in little to no effort to change that. im not saying its okay- but again. what's done is done. you just have to figure it out after that. and sometimes its their own struggle as well, you don't always know the background. and like i said, if they're going through with the pregnancy then be ready to deal with the consequences.

what i will say is that the poc girl in my school that said she would give up the baby if they came out a certain way pissed me the fuck off. and she further thought it was okay because she had a disabled cousin. that was disgusting. mocking the results as if it wasn't the product of your own actions, is disgusting, acting as if that's not your issue to deal with is a terrible way of thinking.
True, it’s hard to do anything to change some of their minds. I guess I mistook your comment as thinking you meant it’s their problem so we shouldn’t put any effort to educate them on the behavior but I see now that that’s not what you mean.
 
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True, it’s hard to do anything to change some of their minds. I guess I mistook your comment as thinking you meant it’s their problem so we shouldn’t put any effort to educate them on the behavior but I see now that that’s not what you mean.
oh no, im an avid supporter for education of this sort and on safe pregnancies. its very necessary in today's society and especially with the advanced studies of both physical and psychological effects of drugs/alcohol on the fetus. there's ample evidence and if someone's willing to take the risk while wanting a kid, i think, you should immediately reconsider the idea of having a kid at all. if its enough to affect a full grown adult, imagine how its going to effect development.
 
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