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[kodoku]

this guy at work/my friend (I think?) frustrates me to no end. He is the most negative and cynical person ever......... he's good and hard working and smart but omg....... he was saying how none of us should even exist because the world is filled with pain and suffering and I was like yea it is but how is it better if there's nothing and no one there to begin with.. at some point I wanted to say "I've suffered too.." only for him to stop me and say "You didn't suffer enough" lol what the heck would you know about my hell.... he's a good man but he thinks he's had it so bad even though the things he mentions are things that have happened to literally all of us...... but he takes it so personally and now doesn't give anyone or anything a chance, he is sooo extreme my gosh........ and that was just disrespectful to me.... just because I'm smiling even these days when things are hard for me, doesn't mean I don't know about pain and it's not a competition geez..... like I just wanna grab him and shake him, I hope he snaps out of it someday grrr >_<

 

[Skinnny]

People are so quick to disregard any one else's trouble and think they had it the worst, I understand your frustration

 

[DrowningFishy]

this guy at work/my friend (I think?) frustrates me to no end. He is the most negative and cynical person ever......... he's good and hard working and smart but omg....... he was saying how none of us should even exist because the world is filled with pain and suffering and I was like yea it is but how is it better if there's nothing and no one there to begin with.. at some point I wanted to say "I've suffered too.." only for him to stop me and say "You didn't suffer enough" lol what the heck would you know about my hell.... he's a good man but he thinks he's had it so bad even though the things he mentions are things that have happened to literally all of us...... but he takes it so personally and now doesn't give anyone or anything a chance, he is sooo extreme my gosh........ and that was just disrespectful to me.... just because I'm smiling even these days when things are hard for me, doesn't mean I don't know about pain and it's not a competition geez..... like I just wanna grab him and shake him, I hope he snaps out of it someday grrr >_<

oooo the entitled emo person. The only thing you can do with those is to keep professional and when he starts his greif stricken plot speech remind him it's unwork related and you do not wish to hear it since it "affects" you job.

Essentially tap into the inner btch.

And if you like this guy for some odd reason let him know plainly that you do not appreciate your emotions being belittled. How it makes it makes you feel when he goes off. And how he's not the only person in the work that suffers. Nor should anyone have to suffer.

 

[dark_tranquility]

Guy is delusional if he thinks he is the only one who has problems.
Needs a mind jolt of sorts to snap him awake.

Sorry you have to put up with this individual.
I can only imagine the anger he unleashes in you.

The world has two types of people, those that matter and those that do not matter.
He is the latter.

 

[kodoku]

oooo the entitled emo person. The only thing you can do with those is to keep professional and when he starts his greif stricken plot speech remind him it's unwork related and you do not wish to hear it since it "affects" you job.

Essentially tap into the inner btch.

And if you like this guy for some odd reason let him know plainly that you do not appreciate your emotions being belittled. How it makes it makes you feel when he goes off. And how he's not the only person in the work that suffers. Nor should anyone have to suffer.

Guy is delusional if he thinks he is the only one who has problems.
Needs a mind jolt of sorts to snap him awake.

Sorry you have to put up with this individual.
I can only imagine the anger he unleashes in you.

The world has two types of people, those that matter and those that do not matter.
He is the latter.

just wanna clarify he is not a bad guy but he's messed up and does not realize it whatsoever... I don't hold anything against him but thinking of only your pain and assuming I or someone else has not been through much....... nah just stop ://

 

[dark_tranquility]

just wanna clarify he is not a bad guy but he's messed up and does not realize it whatsoever... I don't hold anything against him but thinking of only your pain and assuming I or someone else has not been through much....... nah just stop ://

Well ignore the first part I said. I mean if he is decent, then just find a way to make him stop or do it less often.

 

[DrowningFishy]

just wanna clarify he is not a bad guy but he's messed up and does not realize it whatsoever... I don't hold anything against him but thinking of only your pain and assuming I or someone else has not been through much....... nah just stop ://

Sometimes they don't realize what they are doing. And that could be affecting his happiness as well. For example when I rode the bus there was this dude who constantly bullied this one chic. And was very vocal about it to the whole bus. She did nothing wrong to him just didn't tell him hi because she talks to no one. Eventually I went toe to toe to him and layed out very loudly what he did was wrong and maybe he'd be happier if he apologized and stopped. Next week I saw him he apologized and said he was much happier since he stopped.

He's not happy, and why should you all suffer because he can't look above teh doom and gloom. He's going to be looking for darkness in his life he's eventually gonna smell sh--

HEY I used to tell the EMO people that sat at the table I did to take a handful of skittles and go to bed already. Literally Skittles, as in taste the rainbow not medifore for anything else.

 

[Darkseid]

Hit me up if you need to hide the body

 

[kodoku]

Hit me up if you need to hide the body

aw thank you :P

 

[Darkseid]

aw thank you :P

We could really bond over crime, I anticipate

 

[kodoku]

We could really bond over crime, I anticipate

cuteness

 

[yeji]

oh that guy again. would be down to help you with this

 

[kodoku]

oh that guy again. would be down to help you with this

I should tell him he's famous on this one kpop forum

 

[honeyfornomoney]

I will just admit that I think like him sometimes x)

 

[dooh]

"You didn't suffer enough" ... he might be right and i dont speak about HIS sufferings, but looking how little children day by day f.e in the gaza strip, Syria suffer and die.. or looking at Africa, SEA states here and there.. i would agree with him to a degree..

Mother's and Father's carring the coffins of their children to the grave cuz of nonsense wars.. dunno.. probably the worst ever, except for missing children.. You cant sleep, cuz every hour some bombs explode over your head.. i know this sounds pessimistic, but thats reality for these people..

I know, we might cant do much about it, except for believing everything that is broadcast on the propaganda news like CNN, CNBC, ABC, FOX etc..

i dont want to play down what you experienced, maybe he meant it in general / globally..
btw i also hate people telling me, " there are people, they have much worse then you " so I get where u come from.. ☺😊

 

[honeyfornomoney]

Wait he actually said "You didn't suffer enough"? O.o

 

[kodoku]

Wait he actually said "You didn't suffer enough"? O.o

Yea "you didn't suffer enough to understand"

 

[yeji]

I should tell him he's famous on this one kpop forum

you really should tell him that

 

[Darkseid]

Yea "you didn't suffer enough to understand"

Oh wow you got a Sasuke on your hands

 

[spicy_illusion]

Does he realize that people doesn't want to be around him if he's negative all the time?
I have a colleague who is pretty much the same and when he's like that, it's hard to be around him but when he's happy, then he's a much likable guy.

When he said 'you haven't suffered enough', I hate that mentality.
People are dying and suffering in poverty, war and destruction, the bushfires, the coronavirus, stoned to death because of the country they live in, totalitarian governments etc, but we are so fortunate to be in a position where we only have 1st world problems and so we have so much opportunity to better ourselves and make the most of all of the amazing things we have or can tap into getting.

Quite frankly, I am tired of this negativety and how people think the world owes them something.

I mean, yes, it's ok to be sad and cry, but when you think that everything is happening to just you and no one else, that is what makes people want to stay away and it also affects everyone around you.

Honestly, this type of mentality is toxic thinking and could rub off you in the long run.