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Numbers and rankings can be fun, but when i get tired of it, I think it's time to take step back and relax a little. I'm sure you will get lot of ideas for threads without forcing it, don't force urself to post thread daily and just post when u get idea and motivation for it. That's my advice anyways ^^
 

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i just wanted to say, to all the notable members and admins and moderators and staff and donors and people who make threads and aeveryone who really adds something special (you make me feel speciallll) to this site (and others!), even though i don't really know you all personally very well (i'm not the most active on here lol), thank you for everything that y'all do, i really love and respect you guys - y'all are so cool and so so good at running this cool forum, but please don't feel obligated or pressured to overwork(?? is that the right word?) yourselves, y'all are great and your mental health comes first
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Compared to everyone else around my post count and reaction score range, my thread count is shockingly low lmao. Not even a 100 yet. Don't let it bother you, at the end of the day, all forum stats are meaningless. You're clearly loved and appreciated by many here and that's what counts.
From one notable member to another :jenniesmug:
 

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You shouldn't get caught up in the the rankings as they don't affect the value you bring to the forum. As a side note if it's competing with me that's causing you stress well you can't compete with the tournaments with a normal thread output.

1 tournament alone is worth 30 threads so you'd have to post a thread daily to just stay even and that output will burn you out. If someone posted a thread daily for a year while I posted a tournament once a month they'd only gain 5 threads on me while id only really be active for not even half of a year.

It's not a competition as I just do the tournaments for people to enjoy and maybe find something new while helping the forum with activity in the process and if I end up having the most threads so what?
 
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Honestly I think I post quite often and I overtook my other account number of threads already in a bit more than month. (@Natsuka_Ojousama )
 

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Had the same mindset for a while until I got the 1000 thread mark which isn't even too long ago.

Some days I was like "shit I haven't posted any threads in a while let me just punch a few out even if the quality sucks".

Gladly it stopped after the 1000 mark tho.
So maybe you just have to beat my record for that mindset to go away even if it'll take a while.
But try not to lose the fun creating threads etc.
 
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I know how you feel, I used to be the same over on Kplanets. I had the most threads over there for a while. On most days I would posts multiple threads. For some reason I felt like I had to post at least one thread each day. I would do the same on H+ even though I didn't have the most threads. Eventually I started to run out of interesting ideas for threads and so I stopped posting every day. When I stopped posting so much I realised I had almost made it like a job to post when in reality I should have just been posting for fun rather than because I felt I had to. I enjoy forums more now that I stopped posting so many threads.

Basically, just post threads whenever you feel like it. Don't worry if you don't post often. It's more fun to just post whatever you like without worrying about anything.
 

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Really, don't worry too much about it maru! You already contribute more than enough to the forum. You don't need to post a thread everyday, let alone be active everyday. This forum is all about having fun with no pressure :nekolove:
 

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oh hun please don't stress yourself out. just seeing you around is enough to bring smiles to people. do what you want and just have fun
 
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Had the same mindset for a while until I got the 1000 thread mark which isn't even too long ago.

Some days I was like "shit I haven't posted any threads in a while let me just punch a few out even if the quality sucks".

Gladly it stopped after the 1000 mark tho.
So maybe you just have to beat my record for that mindset to go away even if it'll take a while.
But try not to lose the fun creating threads etc.
I noticed that it might sound like I had it from Thread 0 to Thread 1000, but it was like just the last 100-200 threads*
 
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