true, please read my post above quoting kinnie i think IF you interested that is
i also talk about similar things you mentioned
as for the second part, don't follow you
could you care to explain it a bit more or show examples?
I've replied to it below this one~
So this video of a toddler helping his grandma make cookies went viral and some people said they could not handle that with a kid (and why they won't have them) and that was fine but some people took it further and talked about how they wanted to beat the kid. Idk if I can find it but there was also a mom on tiktok that had to beg people to stop saying they wanted to hurt her baby....its all really disturbing. Like I understand not wanting kids but saying you want to hurt a child pretty much can only be said on the internet b/c IRL you would not get away with that.
TRUE
SO TRUE
thank you for stating facts
its because parents often get kids but then later on realise they dont have the time for them and cant be arsed to even put in effort when it comes down to parenting their kids a good way because they barely have time to get sexy times together so why not put the 3 year old on an ipad 24/7? right?
i know this for a fact as i sold so many tablets to parents that told me they were buying it for their very very very young kids to keep them occupied
LIKE WTF
great that both parents have a job and so women are making good many compared to the old days
yay women
but then like.....why not choose?
go carreer or go kids
and if you want both, fine
but then fkin raise your kids in a good fkin manner
DONT FKIN SLACK just because you want more sex or something
AWESOME YOU GOT KIDS, IM HAPPY FOR YOU BUT PARENTS FORGET OFTEN THE KIDS ARE THEIR RESPONSIBILITY
i think thats also a big issue, people often not wanting to take responsiblity anymore for anything
I agree that parents need to make time to actually parent their kids but i'd argue people have the wrong target when they look just at the mother. From working with kids 9/10 times moms do their work, chores, and parent the kids to the best of their abilities with the time they have. Dads on the other hand....oh boy. I worked with a kid who's mom would make him a healthy meal by request while on her break for work and the kid never ate it because the dad would go on lunch and go get them McDonalds. I was always mad for the mom lmao.
So I guess what i'm saying is parents should BOTH be making time for their kids and be on the same page about things.