I barely celebrate my birthday unless my family or friends decide to do sth on the day/week of.
Most of my friends dont know when it is or i dont tell em, so....But one time i got pleasantly surprised when a colleague took up a collection/bought cake n we had a small 5 minute celebration, rather diluted by another younger by a few yrs colleague happened to hv same birthday as me(also i suspect, from l8r impression my colleague had a crush/feelings for me but i was oblivious/dint take it or her tat srsly so nvr took action to confirm/did anything abt it; still regret tat many yrs l8r).
Birthdays n getting older arent my favorite thing.