today I got rid of a bunch of stuff through ebay.. feels nice giving things away to people who need them more.. and I also deleted a bunch of contacts from my phone, exes and people I don't even like who only harmed me.. screw them, I don't want to be reminded all the time.. I still have a long way to go and I'm struggling with people and things even at this very moment but I'm glad I managed to at least do something small but good like this 🙂