Have you ever been in an unrequited love? (1 Viewer)

[Soleski]

not actually love but some boy had a crush on me while I only saw them as friend

also good luck to you!!

 

[inverity]

Yeah, but only recently.
Last year I was very much infatuated with one of my friend's friends. From what I could tell at first he seemed to find me attractive at least but he seemed to be less and less interested as the year went on :(
I was way too nervous/intimidated to ever ask him out, and I regret it to this day. He was a very good guy on top of being attractive.

I also have a male friend who has had a on/off crush on me for a while. He likes a lot of girls though so I don't feel a lot of pressure lol

 

[NASA]

Yes and it destroyed me

I guess it's not as bad as it's made out to be in books

Oh you're just not far gone enough yet my dude. Don't get comfy with that feeling cuz it'll sneak up on you and you won't realise until it's too late, shove those feelings out of you now while you still can, take a sledgehammer to them if you can, anything, it's a lot harder and more painful down the line...

 

[Tickita]

I've been on the receiving end. Nothing ever happened.

 

[Belgizen]

I don't know.There's this guy I like and he seems to like me too and tries to sit close to me and such but sometimes he avoids me?
He's kinda quiet and only talks to me when I talk to his friend. When he's alone, it seems like he runs away from me
(wouldn't you want to be alone with your crush when you have the chance?)

 

[Abeamus]

I don't know.There's this guy I like and he seems to like me too and tries to sit close to me and such but sometimes he avoids me?
He's kinda quiet and only talks to me when I talk to his friend. When he's alone, it seems like he runs away from me
(wouldn't you want to be alone with your crush when you have the chance?)

Well that depends on if he realises you like him which I'm not sure if he does and might be avoiding you thinking you aren't interested.

You should try to show you're interested in an obvious in case he's oblivious when it comes to picking up signs.

 

[potato]

Yes and it destroyed me


Oh you're just not far gone enough yet my dude. Don't get comfy with that feeling cuz it'll sneak up on you and you won't realise until it's too late, shove those feelings out of you now while you still can, take a sledgehammer to them if you can, anything, it's a lot harder and more painful down the line...

How can I just push those feelings away though

 

[Abeamus]

How can I just push those feelings away though

Well you can either forget about them by focusing on other things or just ask her to hang out together and use that to get to know her better.

The mistake people usually make is they won't take any action and the idea of this happy couple with their crush will manifest and then when they do take action and get turned down it crushes that idea they got so invested in.

You don't really lose anything by going for it since worst case is you're still single and 1 person turning you down is by no means the end of the world.

 

[NASA]

How can I just push those feelings away though

Well I mean you can try working that out when those feelings get a little more serious but I wouldn't recommend it

Also distance yourself a bit from the person, even just emotionally at least, staying friends while managing your feelings is unrealistic and impossible, I say this from practice

 

[kodoku]

Yes lol, even at this very moment. Even when I finally find a guy I like and then try and get closer to him, that part works out, but then, very quickly, he's like nah for whatever reason.. well apparently I am "too good" and "deserve better" so they leave me on my own :)

 

[yeji]

Yes lol, even at this very moment. Even when I finally find a guy I like and then try and get closer to him, that part works out, but then, very quickly, he's like nah for whatever reason.. well apparently I am "too good" and "deserve better" so they leave me on my own :)

I tend to get this too. it always sucks

 

[yeji]

I can be pretty oblivious to how people view me so I am not sure if someone is intrested in me tbh.

I do think I was in a situation of unrequeted love multiple times and it always hurts like hell

 

[spicy_illusion]

Guess you'll have to be old school and slip her a note which is actually heckin' cute
now that I think about it.
Okay, I'm done playing cupid now.
Or am I?

Roses are red, violets are blue
I'm so into you, let's combine our hearts together with superglue.

A note sounds perfect!

 

[Mayday]

Thank you kinnie

But she's not even a friend which is the problem We have zero interaction apart from seeing each other in class sometimes so I've pretty much accepted that I have no hope

Hmm...are you sure that's love? Or a crush. I feel like there's a difference.

 

[Mayday]

Dowoon doesn't love me back

 

[kinnie]

Roses are red, violets are blue
I'm so into you, let's combine our hearts together with superglue.

A note sounds perfect!

Yee.

 

[potato]

Hmm...are you sure that's love? Or a crush. I feel like there's a difference.

It's a crush. I dont really feel like there is a difference when the crush is serious though.

 

[Mayday]

It's a crush. I dont really feel like there is a difference when the crush is serious though.

Hmm, is it love, or is it just liking someone?

Can you really love without truly knowing someone? I feel like love is a lot more deep and serious than just overhearing someone talk for a few years. Is it really someone you could see yourself spending the rest of your life with? I feel like the term "love" is thrown around really losely, when in reality, I see it as a lot more than just "liking someone", even if a lot.

Obviously those are just the opinions of a tiny girl in a large world though.

 

[MinSquishy]

I've felt that way about many people in my life. I've been to shy to confront them, so I end up 'moving on'. >.<

 

[Wingfrost]

I personally never have, I’ve had crushes on people that weren’t interested in me but never loved anyone. But I’ve been on the receiving end, I just saw them more as friends. I would just tell her how you feel though as long as you know that you can handle what she might say (good or bad)The most uncomfortable thing is when you tell someone that you don’t feel the same way and then they get all angry at you and hold a grudge against you forever when you still wanted to remain as friends.