How do you reject someone you aren't interested in politely ?? (1 Viewer)

[Hajima]

I just tell them I am gay or I am straight if they are gay lol...

For example a guy before came to me and said he like me I told him I am sorry I am gay.. you are a nice guy tho if I were straight I would have dated you... works everytime

 

[Poetry]

Silently pray that they take it well/are not stalker-type.

 

[DrowningFishy]

Just simply tell them you're not interested.

 

[emptycup]

Say you aren't interested.​

 

[mehboy]

Explain to them with reasons why you are not interested.

 

[Hajima]

Just simply tell them you're not interested.

Some people get angry or really say mean things to you.... I have had someone who bullied me before because I rejected him..

 

[DrowningFishy]

Some people get angry or really say mean things to you.... I have had someone who bullied me before because I rejected him..

No matter how you reject people some of them are going ot be d-bags. You just look at them and say "this is why I wasn't interested." And if you gay, of course you can say "Other then your the wrong gender, this is why I wasn't interested."

 

[yeji]

just be honest

 

[lostinwvnderland]

Just say you not interested. Sometime they going to be d-bag about it. Even telling a guy that you gay not going to work all the time.

 

[Wingfrost]

Just say you're not interested and hope they react in a mature way.

 

[raymondchouku]

Just say you're having a nomadic year (a year without sex) and that should do it...

 

[Haolat]

Just say you're having a nomadic year (a year without sex) and that should do it...

😮

 

[raymondchouku]

😮

I suppose that would only apply for adults... lol

 

[Faerie]

I just tell them I am gay or I am straight if they are gay lol...

For example a guy before came to me and said he like me I told him I am sorry I am gay.. you are a nice guy tho if I were straight I would have dated you... works everytime

What no
Lying is possibly The worst thing you could ever do to a person. Imagine them finding out later that you did lie to them, they only gonna be more hurt. It’s better to rip of the bandage, it’ll hurt now but it will be a lot better then realizing the person they liked rather lie about their sexuality then date me.

They need to understand people just don’t click sometimes and only time will heal the rejection.

 

[Hajima]

What no
Lying is possibly The worst thing you could ever do to a person. Imagine them finding out later that you did lie to them, they only gonna be more hurt. It’s better to rip of the bandage, it’ll hurt now but it will be a lot better then realizing the person they liked rather lie about their sexuality then date me.

They need to understand people just don’t click sometimes and only time will heal the rejection.

They Will just get it I guess 😂

 

[RainbowDevil]

Tbh I've had more situations where the person likes me but in a very obvious way but doesn't say it, so I just try and keep my distance without being an asshole and not talking to the person at all. It isn't really effective that much but I always hope that they get a message, cause people really can't "Take a Hint" and neither can I