Official ✯ ✵ Mental Health Support✯ ✵ (4 Viewers)

[Kamistar]

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crying rn ur so nice

Agree

 

[LeeriaYa]

Thank you for your kind words
I've been observing how you reply people and I must say that apart of very gentle and kind you're very skilled too on the sense of knowing how to choose the right words and effectively comforting people. I actually felt better just for reading how you talk to the others, seeing people being nice make me feel better
And yes I do voluntary work I just know it's not enough, but thank you for reply and suggestion
I hope you're doing well ^^

It helps me, too, to see people be kind. I feel welcomed here and you’re reaching out to others and making friends. It’s an admirable thing and I feel you have a knack for it. Voluntary work can only help so much, but there’s so many places we can reach out to and offer help when we can. You’re doing amazing so far and I wish you luck on your journey. You’re taking steps and becoming involved with others and that helps more than you know. You’ll feel it one day, little star. Wish you luck. Have a nice day.

 

[Kamistar]

It helps me, too, to see people be kind. I feel welcomed here and you’re reaching out to others and making friends. It’s an admirable thing and I feel you have a knack for it. Voluntary work can only help so much, but there’s so many places we can reach out to and offer help when we can. You’re doing amazing so far and I wish you luck on your journey. You’re taking steps and becoming involved with others and that helps more than you know. You’ll feel it one day, little star. Wish you luck. Have a nice day.

You're very cute and really made me feel better
I'll do my best to help according to my conditions (and hopefully it will get better soon).
Thank you for helping the users here, I'm sure it means a lot to them as it did to me. Have a nice day!

 

[Hoemantic]

Just a rant

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I always had a genuine wish of helping people and as a kid I thought that at this age I'd be contributing so much for society and helping so many people but here I am, such a failure
I don't like to be who I am and I wish other person was born with my life, I'm sure any other would do better. My friends are already achieving big things and getting great jobs while for me getting up from bed is already so hard, I don't feel any wish to do it
I have a good health and it makes me feel bad because I know many sick people have courage, strength and fight for what they want but I feel dead inside
I also feel horrible seeing so many people needing help on my city and me without any money to contribute, it breaks my heart and make me feel so disappointed at myself, I don't deserve my life.
I'm sorry mom for disappointing you so much but I also feel this way about myself

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I'm starting to think this pain will never be healed and my life is being wasted

But I also don't want to take the motivation from anyone, so if someone read this please don't relate to what I said, believe on yourself and don't give up, please don't let my words make you feel bad

We can't always help people, as much as it sucks it's out of our control sometimes. You don't have to do big things to help others, even the small things can make a big difference in someone's day. You aren't a disappointment, you are trying your best and it's what matters. Don't compare yourself to your friends. We're all going at our own pace and that's okay. Think about the present, appreciate what you have right now. Life will bring you where you need to be.

 

[Hoemantic]

I need to vent...

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Every time I think about my age I start thinking about the past years, all I feel is this heavy feeling inside me. I'm getting older and older, I hate aging. Being abused when I was 15 stole my teenagerhood from me and now at 23 I don't even feel like an adult. Actually, right now in this present time I feel like I'm 17-18 because I can finally, sort of, live my life the way it was meant to be. I look young in appearance which reassures me, everyone thinks I'm 16 when they meet me but I still feel shitty because I'm actually old. I try to convince myself that it's okay, I can still enjoy all those things I love even at my age or when one day I hit 30. I also can't stop thinking about how I have done nothing when it comes to adult things like having my apartment, getting a car (I used to have one but I gave it to my brother, long story) or even going to college. I feel like a huge loser because I never managed to accomplish my goals. I can't even imagine myself at 30, I think I'll be gone for real. I won't be alive. I know it's never too late, that I can still achieve these goals but it's so hard. It's really hard especially because it always reminds me about how much time I lost to finally get to where I am. I have a boyfriend who lives in another country and I feel stuck when it comes to do certain things because I feel like I have to build my whole life around the fact I have to meet him someday and finally live with him. Distance makes it so hard. I don't think I'd feel this way if he was living in my town or something... I'm so unhappy with everything.

 

[doll]

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i sit in my room all day because im tired, and i cant tell you that?

 

[doll]

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i sit in my room all day because im tired, and i cant tell you that?

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thats lame asf
and dont say i look homeless and look like no one takes care of me because no one does- you go off with ur little mistress and forget about me and my siblings
i wake up everyday at 5 AM to make sure YOUR kids are ready and look presentable enough to go to school

 

[Kamistar]

I need to vent...

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Every time I think about my age I start thinking about the past years, all I feel is this heavy feeling inside me. I'm getting older and older, I hate aging. Being abused when I was 15 stole my teenagerhood from me and now at 23 I don't even feel like an adult. Actually, right now in this present time I feel like I'm 17-18 because I can finally, sort of, live my life the way it was meant to be. I look young in appearance which reassures me, everyone thinks I'm 16 when they meet me but I still feel shitty because I'm actually old. I try to convince myself that it's okay, I can still enjoy all those things I love even at my age or when one day I hit 30. I also can't stop thinking about how I have done nothing when it comes to adult things like having my apartment, getting a car (I used to have one but I gave it to my brother, long story) or even going to college. I feel like a huge loser because I never managed to accomplish my goals. I can't even imagine myself at 30, I think I'll be gone for real. I won't be alive. I know it's never too late, that I can still achieve these goals but it's so hard. It's really hard especially because it always reminds me about how much time I lost to finally get to where I am. I have a boyfriend who lives in another country and I feel stuck when it comes to do certain things because I feel like I have to build my whole life around the fact I have to meet him someday and finally live with him. Distance makes it so hard. I don't think I'd feel this way if he was living in my town or something... I'm so unhappy with everything.

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You're just starting your life! You're not late on anything, each person has the own time for the things.
I'm 2 years older than you and I can relate to many things you said, but honestly we are so young and there are so many things for us to do.
What hurts you (and me too) is thinking about what you could have done, but it's not worth it to keep thinking like that, it will only hurt. Think about what you want to do from now on ❤
I know that you specially passed for many hard things but don't let that take your expectations for the future :)
Btw almost nobody can afford big things like cars and apartments while on their 20's without some help of the parents.
Remember how you told me to do not compare myself to the others? You're doing that too thinking that you should have done this or that at x age. Who cares about numbers, we are all different individuals with different goals and different situations, find your own path for happiness without comparing yourself
I think you should stop looking back and only think from now on. I know it's easier said than done but you can do it, Fae
I understand that be on the 20's is hard and confusing, but you will find your way.
Let's work for that when we are 30 we look back and feel good
Most important: you're smart, beautiful and so kind. Go enjoy your life
I know you want to be with your boyfriend but go step by step, set small goals and you will start achieving things until you get where you want. It's never late to start (and it's even weird to say something like that to who is only 23 lol)

 

[Hoemantic]

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You're just starting your life! You're not late on anything, each person has the own time for the things.
I'm 2 years older than you and I can relate to many things you said, but honestly we are so young and there are so many things for us to do.
What hurts you (and me too) is thinking about what you could have done, but it's not worth it to keep thinking like that, it will only hurt. Think about what you want to do from now on ❤
I know that you specially passed for many hard things but don't let that take your expectations for the future :)
Btw almost nobody can afford big things like cars and apartments while on their 20's without some help of the parents.
Remember how you told me to do not compare myself to the others? You're doing that too thinking that you should have done this or that at x age. Who cares about numbers, we are all different individuals with different goals and different situations, find your own path for happiness without comparing yourself
I think you should stop looking back and only think from now on. I know it's easier said than done but you can do it, Fae
I understand that be on the 20's is hard and confusing, but you will find your way.
Let's work for that when we are 30 we look back and feel good
Most important: you're smart, beautiful and so kind. Go enjoy your life
I know you want to be with your boyfriend but go step by step, set small goals and you will start achieving things until you get where you want. It's never late to start (and it's even weird to say something like that to who is only 23 lol)

Thank you so much

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I know my main problem is impulsivity and I want to have everything right now, right away. It's harsh on my mind. I vented the other day to my friend who is a few years older than me ans he told me "Life is short, don't burn yourself during your best years, enjoy them like you should! Worry about problems another time." and he's so right. That helped me waking up and decide I will just do things one step at a time.

 

[Kamistar]

Thank you so much

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I know my main problem is impulsivity and I want to have everything right now, right away. It's harsh on my mind. I vented the other day to my friend who is a few years older than me ans he told me "Life is short, don't burn yourself during your best years, enjoy them like you should! Worry about problems another time." and he's so right. That helped me waking up and decide I will just do things one step at a time.

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Yess I agree
Your best years are only starting, don't waste it worrying about what already passed/you didn't do, it doesn't matter anymore. You have a lot to do, go for it and remember you are unique and should never be compared to other people

 

[doll]

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i get mad, i get too mad
i dont want to say something wrong when im mad
im mad right now, everythings making me angry- everyones voice
everything is so fucking annoying i cant take it
when people yell im so scared i start crying and then im mad at them, like its their fault
i just hate everything

 

[lexus]

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I've just felt so angry and frustrated with some people lately. I've tried to let some things go but these things have just been building up for a while. I know that I have a right to be angry about a few things that happened, but there's also trivial things that I feel angry about for no reason and I don't even know if I have a right to be angry towards them. The frustration and anger towards them just keeps building up and won't stop. I'm even getting angry at myself for it. I've always had the tendency to keep holding onto resentment and not letting go of anything. I don't even know what to do anymore and I feel like I'm stressing myself out over something stupid. I hate myself for being this way. Why can’t I just stop being such and idiot and let shit go?

 

[athenaaa]

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I've just felt so angry and frustrated with some people lately. I've tried to let some things go but these things have just been building up for a while. I know that I have a right to be angry about a few things that happened, but there's also trivial things that I feel angry about for no reason and I don't even know if I have a right to be angry towards them. The frustration and anger towards them just keeps building up and won't stop. I'm even getting angry at myself for it. I've always had the tendency to keep holding onto resentment and not letting go of anything. I don't even know what to do anymore and I feel like I'm stressing myself out over something stupid. I hate myself for being this way. Why can’t I just stop being such and idiot and let shit go?

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It's okay to be upset at others, it's better than letting it all build up. And it takes strenght to admit that you are upset instead of dismissing those feelings. If you are still in contact with those people, it could be beneficial to disconnect from them. If it's someone from the past, your anger is probably justified, but it might help to let go of their memory. I know that's way easier said than done, I'm struggling with that myself. But hopefully you have someone you can talk to about how you're feeling. If you feel comfortable, my DMs are also open too. It's possible the anger is a projection of multiple things that have happened over time. Select maybe one thing to talk about, let go, or repair?

 

[Tickita]

Possible TW? Food Remember to eat.
Focus on yourself.
Do whatever makes you feel alive.
Please don't beat yourself up.
Feel.
You will get through it all.

That's all I can say for now...

 

[doll]

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i havent ate since wednesday
i havent slept since i woke up at 5 AM on thursday
i keep getting angrier and angrier to the point where i cant look in a mirror without hitting something
i hate myself
i hate how i look
114 is not enough
im not enough
but i have to keep going for him, right?

 

[us8r]

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thats lame asf
and dont say i look homeless and look like no one takes care of me because no one does- you go off with ur little mistress and forget about me and my siblings
i wake up everyday at 5 AM to make sure YOUR kids are ready and look presentable enough to go to school

I feel the same about the mirror part, I understand what your going through :/ I know a lot of people don't like to talk about their feelings but I'm here <3I hate how I look, and how I see myself too... your perfect the way you are... I know it sounds cheesy or that it doesn't help at all but you always look nice :D

 

[doll]

I feel the same about the mirror part, I understand what your going through :/ I know a lot of people don't like to talk about their feelings but I'm here <3I hate how I look, and how I see myself too... your perfect the way you are... I know it sounds cheesy or that it doesn't help at all but you always look nice :D

i dont believe you

 

[us8r]

i dont believe you

That’s fine, I do mean it though, I feel the same way to A LOT and I meant every single word :) just because you don’t like me doesn’t mean I hate you

 

[dark_tranquility]

Hallucinations been trying to attack mentally and physically.
How do I defend against my mind at this length

 

[doll]

Hallucinations been trying to attack mentally and physically.
How do I defend against my mind at this length

go to the doctor