My dog is dying... (1 Viewer)

[Venomous]

Bit of a backstory: I adopted a senior dog in November of 2019.
Bonus points if you know why that timing is significant.
He was, at the time, 13, with a heart murmur, bad teeth, and other issues.
Over the last few weeks, we've noticed a few things off here and there, but nothing super concerning.
He'd have a flare up of one of his known conditions, feel like crud for a bit, then be better.

This morning I woke up and he was absolutely struggling to breathe.
We took him to the emergency vet, and while the vet couldn't get an exam done, he did notice some worrying issues.
Was told in order to examine him, they'd have to sedate him and intubate him.
With his age and condition, he'd likely never make it off the breathing tube.
So we decided to just treat him as best we could, and bring him home.
He's got less than 18 hours, at best.
Barring any worsening of his condition, he'll make one last trip to the vet tomorrow.

I knew this day was coming, I just wasn't expecting it quite so soon.
He's still happy, wagging his tail, eating, he just can't catch his breath.
This sucks.

That's it....That's all I've got, I just needed to talk about him.​

 

[winwinlucas]

im so sorry

 

[raymondchouku]

My condolences

 

[blueberries]

That's the hardest decision to make. My condolences.

 

[Willow]

My condolences

 

[Michael]

I'm sorry.

 

[Myco]

My condolences Ven, I'm glad you took in a senior dog, too many people won't because they are so old and probably afraid they won't make it long but they deserve loving homes as well which I'm sure he has gotten through you and your family.

 

[Venomous]

im so sorry

My condolences

That's the hardest decision to make. My condolences.

My condolences

I'm sorry.

Thank you all.
Right now he is still with us, he is stable enough that he could last a few more days, which we were not expecting but are very grateful to have.

My condolences Ven, I'm glad you took in a senior dog, too many people won't because they are so old and probably afraid they won't make it long but they deserve loving homes as well which I'm sure he has gotten through you and your family.

Honestly he's not my first and I hope he's not my last. Too many people overlook senior dogs, but they usually come pre-potty trained and often have less emotional and behavioural issues than young dogs. There is nothing more rewarding than giving a senior dog a loving home in which to be spoiled for the rest of his days. RJ was a hospice boy, we knew he'd live with us until his time came, and we knew at 13 it could come at any time. We've had over a year and a half with him, and every extra day we get is a gift.

 

[Kamistar]

I'm very sorry :(
But congratulations for adopting this baby and giving the love he deserves <3
Lose my dog was the most painful experience of my life, I really love them so much, but I know that while she was with me she got all love and attention that she deserved, I'm sure it's the same for you
Again, I'm so sorry. I also adopted a senior dog and she has heart problems, but it was the best decision I made, I'll take care of her while she can stay with me like you are doing with your dog

 

[Venomous]

I'm very sorry :(
But congratulations for adopting this baby and giving the love he deserves <3
Lose my dog was the most painful experience of my life, I really love them so much, but I know that while she was with me she got all love and attention that she deserved, I'm sure it's the same for you
Again, I'm so sorry. I also adopted a senior dog and she has heart problems, but it was the best decision I made, I'll take care of her while she can stay with me like you are doing with your dog

Thank you, and thank you for sharing your love with a senior dog, they truly are the best!

 

[Venomous]

So....by some crazy miracle, the old dude is still hanging in there. He's wagging his tail, happily eating, goes outside, totally enjoying life...he just breathes really awfully. He sounds terrible, but in reality he's still getting enough oxygen, still able to breathe with his mouth closed, doesn't pant unless he gets really overheated or over-exerts himself. He's shown us he's not quite ready to go yet, so we're taking it moment by moment.

 

[Villains]

my condolences, i’m sorry this is happening

 

[Michael]

So....by some crazy miracle, the old dude is still hanging in there. He's wagging his tail, happily eating, goes outside, totally enjoying life...he just breathes really awfully. He sounds terrible, but in reality he's still getting enough oxygen, still able to breathe with his mouth closed, doesn't pant unless he gets really overheated or over-exerts himself. He's shown us he's not quite ready to go yet, so we're taking it moment by moment.

Good to hear you have had a bit more time with him.

 

[Venomous]

my condolences, i’m sorry this is happening

Thank you. It's just how life is, but it still sucks.

Good to hear you have had a bit more time with him.

I don't know how much we'll get, be it another day or more, but it's nice to have time to spoil him like he deserves.

 

[ChiaraStar169]

awwwwwwww I'm sorry you're going through this! I've never had to lose a pet, but a few years ago my mom's bestie lost her dog Zoe. Zoe was an amazing dog - never chewed, never peed or shat on the floor, etc. - but she was just getting really old, and Mrs. S (Mom's bestie) eventually had to put her down. I'm still a little heartbroken about it, but it's all good.

 

[Venomous]

Thank you everyone for your care and condolences.

RJ managed to hold out until it became clear this afternoon that he was struggling, and so we brought him in to our vet to say goodbye around 4:20pm central time. The vet confirmed there was a large tumor in the back of his throat, and there was nothing that could have been done, aside give him the peaceful, comfortable passing we did.


Rest in peace, my sweet boy.

 

[LoveYooShaSha]

My Condolences on your loss. Im not an animal person but loss is universal; he looks great in tat picture n you did do well taking in your dog n giving RJ love n care.

Hope you look bk on the time you had with him with love n joy, and hopefully not so much grief n loss. Take care of urself.