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Just my two cents because the discussions about here are unusually toxic. Even Allkpop is having healthier, more nuanced conversations about this 
To be clear: I think there is much discussion to be had around underage idols, their working conditions, how they're viewed and presented etc and there SHOULD be actual discussion about that.
However I'm just not seeing that here.
Instead of any actual concern for the NewJeans girls or minors in the industry period, all I'm seeing is people turning their nose up and "ewwing" their success, saying their only popular because they appeal to pedophiles and shaming anyone even mildly interested and somehow that's "protecting minors"...?
Seriously?
And what's even funnier is the same people so 'concerned' about NewJeans stan or like other groups WITH MINORS IN THEM. Some of those groups that have had actual controversy for oversexualizing their underage members or subjected to severe bodyshaming like but instead insist on projecting scenarios on NewJi while ignoring what's actually going on. That's not me trying to pull a whataboutism, this is me pointing out how selective the concern is. A minor is a minor and we should care about all of them, not token wokeism outrageous on whatever group is trendy. Not making excuses for some while condemning others
Last point: there is a time and a place for these kinds of discussions. Nobody is forcing you to like NewJeans but there's a time, a place and most importantly threads where your dislike can be expressed, not every single thread is an invitation.
Going into a positive thread and saying
"They're only popular because they have creepy fans"
"They're inorganic, this other group full of minors is soooo much better"
Is not only 1. Just a straight up rude thing to say in any circumstance, let alone in the name of some kind of 'advocacy' 2. Irrelevant to the thread.
Let's be civil and in topic. Mind your spaces
Don't forget to stream Song of The Year
To be clear: I think there is much discussion to be had around underage idols, their working conditions, how they're viewed and presented etc and there SHOULD be actual discussion about that.
However I'm just not seeing that here.
Instead of any actual concern for the NewJeans girls or minors in the industry period, all I'm seeing is people turning their nose up and "ewwing" their success, saying their only popular because they appeal to pedophiles and shaming anyone even mildly interested and somehow that's "protecting minors"...?
Seriously?
And what's even funnier is the same people so 'concerned' about NewJeans stan or like other groups WITH MINORS IN THEM. Some of those groups that have had actual controversy for oversexualizing their underage members or subjected to severe bodyshaming like but instead insist on projecting scenarios on NewJi while ignoring what's actually going on. That's not me trying to pull a whataboutism, this is me pointing out how selective the concern is. A minor is a minor and we should care about all of them, not token wokeism outrageous on whatever group is trendy. Not making excuses for some while condemning others
Last point: there is a time and a place for these kinds of discussions. Nobody is forcing you to like NewJeans but there's a time, a place and most importantly threads where your dislike can be expressed, not every single thread is an invitation.
Going into a positive thread and saying
"They're only popular because they have creepy fans"
"They're inorganic, this other group full of minors is soooo much better"
Is not only 1. Just a straight up rude thing to say in any circumstance, let alone in the name of some kind of 'advocacy' 2. Irrelevant to the thread.
Let's be civil and in topic. Mind your spaces
Don't forget to stream Song of The Year
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