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[emptycup]

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When I was younger I always felt like a fake. I felt dishonest and disingenuous because I never shared much about myself as my friends did about themselves. They would tell me everything about their lives, and I would share as much as I could (which was hardly anything) but there were always some things I couldn’t bring myself to talk about... and I would always feel guilty for not sharing as much.
Especially when my friend would tell me about her shitty abusive family relationships.
Idk but the older I got.... the more I came to respect my own privacy and my boundaries. I realized how important it was for my own personal self-worth to keep some secrets. I know online everyone wants to 'share their lives' (which can be very important) but I’m just here to remind you that it’s ok to keep some things private.

 

[ripiasuju]

Spoiler: ;

When I was younger I always felt like a fake. I felt dishonest and disingenuous because I never shared much about myself as my friends did about themselves. They would tell me everything about their lives, and I would share as much as I could (which was hardly anything) but there were always some things I couldn’t bring myself to talk about... and I would always feel guilty for not sharing as much.
Especially when my friend would tell me about her shitty abusive family relationships.
Idk but the older I got.... the more I came to respect my own privacy and my boundaries. I realized how important it was for my own personal self-worth to keep some secrets. I know online everyone wants to 'share their lives' (which can be very important) but I’m just here to remind you that it’s ok to keep some things private.

Spoiler

Its never you the fault of the person sharing it's the fault of the person trying to get them to share. If they cant get you to share then they arent trusting enough.

Your guard is up for a reason. Sharing your most vulnerable moments to people can be dangerous they then have knowledge on you they can use on you. Its perfectly normal to keep things hidden. And wise.

Youd need to be a really trusting person for them to open up to you. Never open up to unworthy people. And if your instincts are not 100% approving of them and I mean a a hundred thoudand percent!! then just DONT. Even if the sun shines on them even if they're your good friend, you still should not be weak to someone easily.

I thought I opened up to everyone untill I met this one person this person I actually do open up to fully and they made me realize I am actually quite guarded what I tell people. This person is just 100% trusting thats why. trusting people are rare. But they are out there.

 

[Peach]

LMAOOOO @ Serhat being power top but where is Matthías from HATARI? I mean he's plain looking but somehow I am attracted to him

R.I.P my taste in men because he's more interesting than sex god Luca Hänni and I'm rarely interested in Eurovision men

 

[ripiasuju]

Here I go again with the online shopping.... >_< ordered a primer and bracelet hehe.. hopefully they will be good :)

well lets hope you dont feel guilty this time xD

 

[ripiasuju]

when people call me good looking i never take it seriously or get happy I just dont care or take notice of it. But for some reason I reeally like it when people compliment my voice I get all excited. Most akp users who heard my voice said something nice and even tho they were probably just saying that to be nice I still liked it. but idc if they say I'm good looking, i dont think i am at all.

 

[Soogi]

self care is eating 4 bowls of warm yummy soup and watching the joy of painting with bob ross

 

[Myco]

LMAOOOO @ Serhat being power top but where is Matthías from HATARI? I mean he's plain looking but somehow I am attracted to him

R.I.P my taste in men because he's more interesting than sex god Luca Hänni and I'm rarely interested in Eurovision men

Luca Hänni a sex god @lalaloveloona

 

[yeji]

Luca Hänni a sex god @lalaloveloona

LUCA
don‘t disrespect this perfect man. Baby boynis the sweetest angel and so darn sexy

 

[yeji]

LMAOOOO @ Serhat being power top but where is Matthías from HATARI? I mean he's plain looking but somehow I am attracted to him

R.I.P my taste in men because he's more interesting than sex god Luca Hänni and I'm rarely interested in Eurovision men

LUUCCCAAAAA
Stan Luca Hänni

 

[gongchan]

The last half semester of school started today and I'm already so done skksskksks. So I was wearing a pocket watch like I always do, and it has a small chain that hangs down and hooks on part of my pocket. I had a teacher yell at me for breaking the dress code because apparently it is "gang affiliation" skksda wtf its a watch????? I lowkey panicked because she was yelling at me and I freaked the fuck out and started crying because I can't handle situations like that...great start, right?

 

[Yili]

i'm thinking drag queens can be more talented than even some idol members. y'all if they can sing and dance like no other, write their own comedy routines and their own songs, put on their own makeup, make their own clothes, sheeeeeeeeeeettttttttttttt

 

[wayvoutsold]

The last half semester of school started today and I'm already so done skksskksks. So I was wearing a pocket watch like I always do, and it has a small chain that hangs down and hooks on part of my pocket. I had a teacher yell at me for breaking the dress code because apparently it is "gang affiliation" skksda wtf its a watch????? I lowkey panicked because she was yelling at me and I freaked the fuck out and started crying because I can't handle situations like that...great start, right?

What kind of school do you go to?

 

[Bopper]

I have a wisdom tooth (bottom right) coming through and I feel like ripping my bottom jaw off my face.

 

[gongchan]

What kind of school do you go to?

Its just a public school :/ they normally don't even care about this kind of stuff

 

[wayvoutsold]

Its just a public school :/ they normally don't even care about this kind of stuff

I go to a public school too, we have a strict dress code but it’s not enforced

 

[gongchan]

I go to a public school too, we have a strict dress code but it’s not enforced

Same here for the most part, only a few teachers and one of our principals enforce it.

 

[wayvoutsold]

Same here for the most part, only a few teachers and one of our principals enforce it.

Half the girls at my school only wear crop tops and ripped jeans with tons of makeup while I’m out here wearing my nct hoodie and regular jeans

 

[gongchan]

Half the girls at my school only wear crop tops and ripped jeans with tons of makeup while I’m out here wearing my nct hoodie and regular jeans

That is very relatable! I always wear my SHINee hoodie and skinny jeans lol

 

[wayvoutsold]

That is very relatable! I always wear my SHINee hoodie and skinny jeans lol

Once I

That is very relatable! I always wear my SHINee hoodie and skinny jeans lol

once I got dress coded for partially showing my bra strap

 

[gongchan]

Once I

once I got dress coded for partially showing my bra strap

Omg really?? Thats way too harsh for them to dress code you for that.