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apologies that my intentions weren’t clearer
I meant more that I was appreciating op’s song choices for the liana and alexa’s side (gosh I can’t believe that’s an actual sentence I’m writing seriously) and the title was an apology for the song choice of lydia

but next time please tell me directly instead of posting the thread equivalent of subtweeting, idc if it’s in the thread itself or pms
Oh I’m not singling you out :( sorry if it came across like that
and I don’t wanna pm like 10 different people lol I’ll just post a thread and get my card
 
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true true
majority of actual hate on here is subtle.
The worst type. You can’t report it or anything because then you’re just overly defensive and an annoying joke killer
 
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Why do I feel like @Jimimis ' soul was invaded by a peace loving christian. lol... Anyway, I know you said that you couldn't put stuff from other threads here because fear of reprisals, but could you give a general example of passive agressive sh*t you've seen on another platform that is sort of like what you've seen on here?
 
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just stop. its so obvious. youre bitter, we get it. now shut up
Well they can express themselves. They can show their bitterness. Bts will be shaded more as they're the most successful. With all the love comes the hate.
 
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Well they can express themselves. They can show their bitterness. Bts will be shaded more as they're the most successful. With all the love comes the hate.
and that doesn’t make it ok??? What???
So I automatically have license to be a horrible person if something if popular? Omg I can’t wait to bash RV Twice BP to my hearts content. Finally!!!
 
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and that doesn’t make it ok??? What???
So I automatically have license to be a horrible person if something if popular? Omg I can’t wait to bash RV Twice BP to my hearts content. Finally!!!
U can't stop them. They have the freedom to bash and u to defend.
 
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Yeah some users here have a lot of resentment towards popular groups, mainly BTS
 
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I have noticed all the negativity against BTS this last spring/summer so I did a kind of test. I did a research to see the last threads about BTS. The first page was full of negative topics. I tried with others popular groups and the results were very different.

Users are allowed to have an opinion but it hurt me a bit.
 
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I have noticed all the negativity against BTS this last spring/summer so I did a kind of test. I did a research to see the last threads about BTS. The first page was full of negative topic. I tried with others popular groups and the results were very different.

Users are allowed to have an opinion but it hurt me a bit.
Well that’s life :/ Bts are the only group it’s acceptable to hate on for some reason
 

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I feel like this was directed at me for my thread from the other day
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I agree since I am guilty of it sometimes, though I also tend to do that to fandoms I'm in :yolk:
I do apologize for it, please call me out on my bs in the future
I guess I'm slow since I didn't realise that was a BTS negative thread :jisoosmh: I actually thought that meme was hilarious.

My comment was referencing the constant passive-agressive comments made towards the group for this that (and usually the most ridiculous stuff like winning on a music show for example lol) as well as the constant aggressive comments a lot of users here make towards the fandom too as if other fandoms are saints. At this point aside from a few users who obviously have something against the group, it just seems like shading the group or the fandom has become second nature here and most don't even realise they're doing it. I mean, even some people who commented on this thread do it too but apparently don't seem to realise it... Not that I have anything against anyone, I just find the situation funny. I guess like I said, it's become so normal here that no one besides fans realise it.

I don't even bother clicking on BTS related threads anymore (especially not achievement threads) because I know it's not going to be all positive and happy like almost all other group related threads here.
 
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I advise you to read the forum rules then
Using the word bashing wasn't right. Basically whatever not so nice opinions they have on bts if presented in line with the rules of the forum, they can post it. The other side can defend. Is it right to target bts and shade or find faults in them? Absolutely not. But it's going to happen.
 

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I guess I'm slow since I didn't realise that was a BTS negative thread :jisoosmh: I actually thought that meme was hilarious.

My comment was referencing the constant passive-agressive comments made towards the group for this that (and usually the most ridiculous stuff like winning on a music show for example lol) as well as the constant aggressive comments a lot of users here make towards the fandom too as if other fandoms are saints. At this point aside from a few users who obviously have something against the group, it just seems like shading the group or the fandom has become second nature here and most don't even realise they're doing it. I mean, even some people who commented on this thread do it too but apparently don't seem to realise it... Not that I have anything against anyone, I just find the situation funny. I guess like I said, it's become so normal here that no one besides fans realise it.

I don't even bother clicking on BTS related threads anymore (especially not achievement threads) because I know it's not going to be all positive and happy like almost all other group related threads here.
that was not my intention either, but I can see why some would take it that way, especially if they haven't seen me complain about the fandoms I'm in :wimwim: MYs are the next blink akgaes, I can already feel it

yeah, in that case, I don't bother clicking bts threads anymore since I've fallen out of the group? i used to semistan but kinda left at around not today

I really don't bother keeping up with them that much, or groups I don't really like in general, so I can't really say anything on that rip
 
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It's because they're popular
I don't get people who shade, dislike or hate bts unless it's their music which is like, ok each to their own
But the actual guys in the group?? Bunch of hardworking, funny and amazing guys <3
 
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