Turn offs in an argument? (1 Viewer)

[Mayday]

Oh I know I'm trying to work on that-my boyfriend and I have had talks about it in depth because it stresses him out when I do it. When that isn't my intent.

i would never wanna have an argument with you irl, i'd probably cry you seem like the type to be scary in fights

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

i would never wanna have an argument with you irl, i'd probably cry you seem like the type to be scary in fights

Everyone seems to think this and I don't think I am-if I am it's VERY rare that a scary side comes out. I've gotten a lot better with regulating my emotions when I used to be very unstable with it. I still got work to do though.

 

[RandAlThor]

no answer i give here will be safe.

 

[Mayday]

60+ replies...y'all really stay mad huh

 

[Mew]

Second one I agree with, the first one I don't.
The Okay response varies.. Dependimg when it appears in the argument, and why.
I use it mainly in person as the person I was arguing with disregarded my opinion and continued to hammer on with theres despite me telling them I understood what they meant but it wasn't going change my opinion, so I said it to end of settle the argument. usually if your talking to someone thats being weirdly aggressive and discounting your personal opinion, it's a waste of time to continue, so an okay and leaving it there is fine, it tends to piss off those kinds of people that are looking for an argument and total submission/gratification rather than a open discussion.
Although if the okay comes right after an opinion with no 2nd opinion, then that person doesn't care to discuss or want to acknowledge you, rude.. But fine. Although sometimes people's opinions start of so delusion that only the word 'Okay' comes to mind.

 

[Mayday]

Second one I agree with, the first one I don't.
The Okay response varies.. Dependimg when it appears in the argument, and why.
I use it mainly in person as the person I was arguing with disregarded my opinion and continued to hammer on with theres despite me telling them I understood what they meant but it wasn't going change my opinion, so I said it to end of settle the argument. usually if your talking to someone thats being weirdly aggressive and discounting your personal opinion, it's a waste of time to continue, so an okay and leaving it there is fine, it tends to piss off those kinds of people that are looking for an argument and total submission/gratification rather than a open discussion.
Although if the okay comes right after an opinion with no 2nd opinion, then that person doesn't care to discuss or want to acknowledge you, rude.. But fine. Although sometimes people's opinions start of so delusion that only the word 'Okay' comes to mind.

I meant more so when you're trying to say your point and they don't wanna hear it, but yeah.

 

[RainbowDevil]

When their only argument is "that they think so" and how "nothing can actually be trusted"

 

[Administrator2]

When I get hit with "there's my opinion and there's wrong opinion" I feel like I'd rather spontaneously combust.