What Moral Values Would Be a Deal Breaker? (1 Viewer)

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I'm thinking of relationships, not friendships.
But what moral view would make it impossible for you to be with someone?

For me, it would be them being homophobic or transphobic.
Also, them thinking HAES is a legit thing.
Also probably being anti-vaxx.

What about you?​

 

[raymondchouku]

Some religious stuff. Like not explicitly, but I think dating someone who is a Satanist would lead to them being scornful of my religion which would lead to heavy discord in the relationship.. Plus homophobia would be off the table, but I'm gay so that's not an issue unless Milo Yianopoulos takes an interest in me... But mainly those who can't have a simple political conversation without resorting to ad homs or screaming matches. I definitely couldn't be with someone who continually slings mudd over simple disagreements.

Also, them thinking HAES is a legit thing.

I think the only ones that think that are feeders and individuals with an Eating Disorder

Spoiler: read me

I have an eating disorder, so this was not me trying to come for those who overeat.

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

Some religious stuff. Like not explicitly, but I think dating someone who is a Satanist would lead to them being scornful of my religion which would lead to heavy discord in the relationship.. Plus homophobia would be off the table, but I'm gay so that's not an issue unless Milo Yianopoulos takes an interest in me... But mainly those who can't have a simple political conversation without resorting to ad homs or screaming matches. I definitely couldn't be with someone who continually slings mudd over simple disagreements.

I think the only ones that think that are feeders and individuals with an Eating Disorder

Spoiler: read me

I have an eating disorder, so this was not me trying to come for those who overeat.

I don't know. HAES seems to be supported by a decent number of people from all ends of the spectrum which is why it's worrisome to me because it's spreading harmful misinformation and allowing people to basically put themselves closer to death.

 

[Villains]

probably just someone who agrees with things I'm against

 

[raymondchouku]

I don't know. HAES seems to be supported by a decent number of people from all ends of the spectrum which is why it's worrisome to me because it's spreading harmful misinformation and allowing people to basically put themselves closer to death.

Honestly, its one thing to be 300 ibs and trying to lose weight and being verbally put down because of their body and its another thing to accuse people who care of body shaming when they are told that the way they are living is unhealthy. There are people who support haes that are geniune and others who do so because they want to save face. . . And then we have youtubers like ALR and Foodiebeauty [and HungryFatChick for whom I feel geniune compassion for] for who unhealthy eating patterns are how they make their $$$...

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

Honestly, its one thing to be 300 ibs and trying to lose weight and being verbally put down because of their body and its another thing to accuse people who care of body shaming when they are told that the way they are living is unhealthy. There are people who support haes that are geniune and others who do so because they want to save face. . . And then we have youtubers like ALR and Foodiebeauty [and HungryFatChick for whom I feel geniune compassion for] for who unhealthy eating patterns are how they make their $$$...

I can agree with that-I am against body shaming since I have body image issues myself but am strongly against the idea that you can be healthy no matter your size.

 

[Jimimis]

-never gonna date a libertarian, most of the time it’s just an excuse for depravity
-meat eaters
-drug users, even if it’s just beer or weed, nope
-people who think porn is okay

now that I think of it I have a lot of requirements lol. I could go on for like ten pages but these are some major ones

 

[Ahsoka]

I would say also homophobia and transphobia but I doubt a homophobic person would want to date a lesbian so

 

[Tickita]

Discrimination of all forms -- race, sex, sexuality, ability, religion...
Someone who's traditional/misogynistic i.e. man makes the money while the woman stays home, woman's pleasure doesn't matter etc.
Non-Christian
Drug use

-people who think porn is okay

^^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

[RandAlThor]

A lot
I am just not willing to spend the rest of my life discussing what i consider to be settled issues.
Relationships are tough enough with out adding extra unnecessary crap.

 

[Abeamus]

Well excluding obvious stuff as I think things like discrimination people would assume aren't cool unless someone has shown otherwise but also if they aren't easy to have a reasonable discussion with about hard topics as well without completely blowing up

 

[MinKarat]

People who lack respect would be one since that can cover a ton of different things. If you can't respect my personal decisions (as long as they aren't hurting other people), I don't want to be in a relationship with you. If you're trying to prevent me from living my life to the fullest, I can't stand being with you

 

[dnb]

A sasaeng or anti.

 

[Jimimis]

A sasaeng or anti.

do you think sasaeng would date someone other than their idol? isn’t that like cheating for them lol

 

[eclipsoul]

racism, transphobia, bodyshaming and trying to force your personal beliefs on me. well obviously homophobia too but these people would rather take away my rights than date me :wonugl: