Did someone that you know leave the forum life ? Why ? (1 Viewer)

[kiki]

a lot of them yea

i also thought i was done for good but after checking on here i realized that i missed talking to some ppl a lot and the pure nostalgia got me to stay

 

[kiki]

I remember Angie, she was really sweet and hope she’s doing okay.

i don't think i actually ever made up w her after that one incident


still hope the best for her tho

 

[xtra]

Yeah, they recently left because they no longer feel safe here and they want to focus on their mental health.

i hope they feel better now or will feel better

+ sending positive vibes to them

 

[athenaaa]

you're moving from the forum life too for real for real for real ?!
It's not just a hiatus bzs i think you did that sometimes?

If you do leave and never come back, it's a good decision. It's tough but necessary if the forum life becomes unhealthy.

Yeah it’s about time I do. I’m not going to get any better mentally if I stay as active as I was. I’ll pop in once in a while but no point in staying active. A hiatus for me is like 2-3 days. Today is the first day I’ve been back in a week and I’ve never been happier. I’m tired of the drama that comes with the forum life. I’ve made some friends worth keeping around, and met the love of my life, but overall, staying isn’t realistic enough for me. Maybe in a few months or years I might come back offically but we’ll see.

 

[athenaaa]

i don't think i actually ever made up w her after that one incident


still hope the best for her tho

I remember that, but I’m sure all is forgiven/forgotten 💚

 

[xtra]

a lot of them yea

i also thought i was done for good but after checking on here i realized that i missed talking to some ppl a lot and the pure nostalgia got me to stay

i can understand that Kris. I know a lot of people that only stay here bzs of their friends

 

[Kamistar]

i don't think i actually ever made up w her after that one incident


still hope the best for her tho

You changed username and I was like "who is this person"

 

[kiki]

Yeah it’s about time I do. I’m not going to get any better mentally if I stay as active as I was. I’ll pop in once in a while but no point in staying active. A hiatus for me is like 2-3 days. Today is the first day I’ve been back in a week and I’ve never been happier. I’m tired of the drama that comes with the forum life. I’ve made some friends worth keeping around, and met the love of my life, but overall, staying isn’t realistic enough for me. Maybe in a few months or years I might come back offically but we’ll see.

you should do this again

 

[Kamistar]

I was almost saying Kris/Kiki but they are here now

 

[xtra]

Yeah it’s about time I do. I’m not going to get any better mentally if I stay as active as I was. I’ll pop in once in a while but no point in staying active. A hiatus for me is like 2-3 days. Today is the first day I’ve been back in a week and I’ve never been happier. I’m tired of the drama that comes with the forum life. I’ve made some friends worth keeping around, and met the love of my life, but overall, staying isn’t realistic enough for me. Maybe in a few months or years I might come back offically but we’ll see.

oh i see you're doing it slowly in your own way. that's good too

 

[xtra]

I was almost saying Kris/Kiki but they are here now

yes
we know so many kiki too

 

[litc]

Idk if @joyride left but I hope she’s doing well, I miss her

 

[xtra]

Idk if @joyride left but I hope she’s doing well, I miss her

OMG RIGHT I FORGOT ABOUT HER

 

[litc]

OMG RIGHT I FORGOT ABOUT HER

JOY WE MISS YOU AND YOUR GIRAFFES AND GAY CATS

 

[dark_tranquility]

People leave for all sorts of reasons.
I wanted to as well.

but handling issues alone, is worse off.
So I decided to stay here.

 

[Mangoey]

Yup a lot. Forum life can be a lot and most people I know either left because it was too much, because they fell out of kpop, or because they simply outgrew it. Back when I was really into it to about when I took a hiatus, there was pretty much constant drama. Tbh to this day, I still kind of perceive forums negatively.

 

[ChiaraStar169]

This isn't K-pop forum related, but there was this girl from the old 1D forums whom I'd become really close with, Caitlyn. Caitlyn and I had each other's Hangouts credentials, emails, and she was even the one who got me into Twitter. One day over Hangouts, she confessed that she had the biggest crush on Luke Hemmings (obvs not from 1D lol)... and that was that. She subsequently deleted her account on the 1D forums, deactivated her Twitter account, and mysteriously vanished; I still miss her sometimes. So, would you please play-

Oops, got carried away there! lol tbh it was starting to sound like one of those sappy long-distance dedications on American Top 40. (they ended when Ryan Seacrest started hosting it, thank God lol) But tl;dr I had a dear friend leave the 1D forums and my life for the silliest reason.

 

[Deleted member 74]

kodoku was my best friend and like an older sister to me. I met her all the way back when I was still in hs and we were close friends for around 4 years before she left to focus on irl things 2 years ago. I still constantly think about and miss her and wonder if she's doing well out there <3 she was so kind hearted and one of the best people I've ever met in my life~