Sometimes I just want to not interact with any other kpop fans ever (1 Viewer)

[maruberry]

it's just that... It's stressful

I just want to appreciate my faves without any drama, listen to bops and thirst over pretty men with others... Is that really too much to ask for?
Eughhhhh

PS: It's not that I think people should always agree with me... it's just that it gives me a headache and I'm tired and I wish this shit was easier and less stressful!

 

[Taeri]

Create your own forum then

 

[maruberry]

Create your own forum then

...How would that help anything?

 

[Haolat]

What happened?

 

[Taeri]

...How would that help anything?

To discuss things

 

[maruberry]

What happened?

what happened is that I really love the idea of SuperM and I love the members and I know they are gonna give me bops. I also love the members to bits so it is stressful seeing people hate this group! I want them to do well, because I like them.

and well that is just the current shit! Then there is the annual shitshow filled with drama and salt also known as awards season!

I just wish things were simpler and peeps were friendlier...

 

[maruberry]

To discuss things

I'm still equally as confused as to how having my own forum where I discuss things with peeps would be any less stressful that being on any other forum or social media platform.

 

[Haolat]

what happened is that I really love the idea of SuperM and I love the members and I know they are gonna give me bops. I also love the members to bits so it is stressful seeing people hate this group! I want them to do well, because I like them.

and well that is just the current shit! Then there is the annual shitshow filled with drama and salt also known as awards season!

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I feel guilty

 

[maruberry]

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I feel guilty

Don't feel guilty... I get why you dislike the group and it's your right to do that... but like... I like you, so I don't really want to argue with you.

 

[Taeri]

I'm still equally as confused as to how having my own forum where I discuss things with peeps would be any less stressful that being on any other forum or social media platform.

I mean u don’t want to interact because u don’t want to see something u disagree with
So make your own forum and only allow the things u want to be said there

 

[maruberry]

I mean u don’t want to interact because u don’t want to see something u disagree with
So make your own forum and only allow the things u want to be said there

go read the edit to the OP

 

[Mayday]

I mean, honestly, people are going to have different opinions, no matter where you go. Diverse opinions is what makes society interesting. Accepting them is a part as growing as a person.

 

[Taeri]

go read the edit to the OP

If a large group of people are disagreeing on things then it’s their right to disagree and there’s no point of u being “ stressed “ about it ..
second about the Super M group .. many international fans like the idea u can find them on twitter .. but don’t expect “ success “ because the support u guys are talking about is trending hashtags on twitter while the people who BUY are Koreans and Chinese and they do not agree on this disgrace of group ..

 

[maruberry]

I mean, honestly, people are going to have different opinions, no matter where you go. Diverse opinions is what makes society interesting. Accepting them is a part as growing as a person.

I agree, but that doesn't lessen the headache

 

[Ashla_K]

I used to feel the same whenever I got into Twitter and the place that starts with A. I highly recommend you to take hiatuses from forums (all of them) and avoid the YT comment section for better mental health.

 

[maruberry]

If a large group of people are disagreeing on things then it’s their right to disagree and there’s no point of u being “ stressed “ about it ..
second about the Super M group .. many international fans like the idea u can find them on twitter .. but don’t expect “ success “ because the support u guys are talking about is trending hashtags on twitter while the people who BUY are Koreans and Chinese and they do not agree on this disgrace of group ..

So I shouldn't be stressed if a group I like is getting hate I don't think they deserve.

Also how is me saying I want people to support them in any way insinuating I was hashtags trending on twitter? I'm barely even on there! How does that in any way leave out me wanting the Korean and Chinese fans to support them!

I get the point you are trying to make, but I am failing to understand how it applies to me in any way.

 

[maruberry]

I used to feel the same whenever I got into Twitter and the place that starts with A. I highly recommend you to take hiatuses from forums (all of them) and avoid the YT comment section for better mental health.

I did mostly avoid the other places for that! But so far this place had been a good place to be a fan without the stress!

 

[Taeri]

So I shouldn't be stressed if a group I like is getting hate I don't think they deserve.

Also how is me saying I want people to support them in any way insinuating I was hashtags trending on twitter? I'm barely even on there! How does that in any way leave out me wanting the Korean and Chinese fans to support them!

I get the point you are trying to make, but I am failing to understand how it applies to me in any way.

U said u want the group u like to success
And I’m telling u the people who can make them successful don’t want that group

And what hate u r talking about ?
It’s EXO-ls and Shawols sis .. they r the fans ..

Anyway if u r going to be “ sensitive “ about this it’s not our fault tbh ..

 

[lexus]

Well.. the thing with kpop is that everyone is going to have different tastes and opinions. You don't have to like or agree with them, bust try to respect their opinion and move on. No need to worry about it ^^

 

[dokyeomon]

Yeah I get you,it can be annoying to have your hype ruined by negativity

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I felt that way on ay kay pee when I was losing my shit over superhuman and everyone hated it istg we weren't listening to the same song or they're bandwagoners I am very salty

Whenever you are part of any online community you have to learn to grow a hard shell and filter out the negativity,don't let it bother you too much,it's not worth it