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I´m so ugly it scares people :D
don't say that about yourself :( we tend to focus so hard on our little 'imperfections" that it completely warps our view of ourselves. the way you perceive yourself is so different from how others see you... you're more beautiful than you think and deserve more than what those cruel voices in your head tell you, please be kinder to yourself
 
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don't say that about yourself :( we tend to focus so hard on our little 'imperfections" that it completely warps our view of ourselves. the way you perceive yourself is so different from how others see you... you're more beautiful than you think and deserve more than what those cruel voices in your head tell you, please be kinder to yourself
you are vey kind and I think that is such a heartwarming response of kind people, but there are no "little imperfections" I was born ugly and I find it a real blessing ♥, people leave me alone and never notice me, and it leaves me to do whatever I want :P. I kind of like that ♥. it allows me to be independent and not depend on the praise of others ,simply because none ever comes. and it is ok, because I don´t have to stress about pleasing anyone!
I feel that being ugly is very freeing ♥.
but I understand your words are coming from the pureness of your heart, but truly I find it awesome!
 

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you are vey kind and I think that is such a heartwarming response of kind people, but there are no "little imperfections" I was born ugly and I find it a real blessing ♥, people leave me alone and never notice me, and it leaves me to do whatever I want :P. I kind of like that ♥. it allows me to be independent and not depend on the praise of others ,simply because none ever comes. and it is ok, because I don´t have to stress about pleasing anyone!
I feel that being ugly is very freeing ♥.
but I understand your words are coming from the pureness of your heart, but truly I find it awesome!
that's so valid tho i relate so much :maheart: still... you shouldnt use negative words to describe yourself like that, you might think its fine but it seriously affects your sense of self-worth you know :( i dont think im pretty either, but i stopped calling myself ugly and started saying im "average looking" instead, it really changed the way i see myself. im not afraid to stand up for myself anymore, im more carefree and confident in my abilities, i realized i dont have to be a people-pleaser all the time and it helped a lot with my anxiety too,..... and "average looking" is not even a very positive way to describe someone :lisalaugh:

anyway like i said, you deserve kindness. we humans are fragile so be gentle to yourself and dont let me catch you calling yourself ugly again hmph :nekopout:
 
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that's so valid tho i relate so much :maheart: still... you shouldnt use negative words to describe yourself like that, you might think its fine but it seriously affects your sense of self-worth you know :( i dont think im pretty either, but i stopped calling myself ugly and started saying im "average looking" instead, it really changed the way i see myself. im not afraid to stand up for myself anymore, im more carefree and confident in my abilities, i realized i dont have to be a people-pleaser all the time and it helped a lot with my anxiety too,..... and "average looking" is not even a very positive way to describe someone :lisalaugh:

anyway like i said, you deserve kindness. we humans are fragile so be gentle to yourself and dont let me catch you calling yourself ugly again hmph :nekopout:
you are so kind and wise and yeah people-pleaser, I gotta try pretty hard to even find people who tolerate me .... I mean look at me on the forum.
 

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you are so kind and wise and yeah people-pleaser, I gotta try pretty hard to even find people who tolerate me .... I mean look at me on the forum.
that's you looking at yourself through your warped self perception again,,,, as a person who is not brekker i think i speak for most people here when i say brekker is one of the kindest, most easy to talk to people on this forum and i genuinely am soso glad to have around ♡
 

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My glares can freeze people into silence :jenniesmug:

No seriously when I’m really annoyed with someone (as long as we’re friends or family) I’ll glare at them and they’ll just immediately go silent. Nobody likes making the quiet person angry :lisalaugh:
 

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