don't say that about yourself :( we tend to focus so hard on our little 'imperfections" that it completely warps our view of ourselves. the way you perceive yourself is so different from how others see you... you're more beautiful than you think and deserve more than what those cruel voices in your head tell you, please be kinder to yourselfI´m so ugly it scares people :D
me too omg salam sisterI'm a hijabi. It gets me a lot of opportunities because people need a token minority
you are vey kind and I think that is such a heartwarming response of kind people, but there are no "little imperfections" I was born ugly and I find it a real blessing ♥, people leave me alone and never notice me, and it leaves me to do whatever I want :P. I kind of like that ♥. it allows me to be independent and not depend on the praise of others ,simply because none ever comes. and it is ok, because I don´t have to stress about pleasing anyone!don't say that about yourself :( we tend to focus so hard on our little 'imperfections" that it completely warps our view of ourselves. the way you perceive yourself is so different from how others see you... you're more beautiful than you think and deserve more than what those cruel voices in your head tell you, please be kinder to yourself
STOP ACTING LIKE IM NOT HEREi can flirt my way to people's hearts
so you mean you are a good liar?i can bullshit my way out of anything
that's so valid tho i relate so much still... you shouldnt use negative words to describe yourself like that, you might think its fine but it seriously affects your sense of self-worth you know :( i dont think im pretty either, but i stopped calling myself ugly and started saying im "average looking" instead, it really changed the way i see myself. im not afraid to stand up for myself anymore, im more carefree and confident in my abilities, i realized i dont have to be a people-pleaser all the time and it helped a lot with my anxiety too,..... and "average looking" is not even a very positive way to describe someoneyou are vey kind and I think that is such a heartwarming response of kind people, but there are no "little imperfections" I was born ugly and I find it a real blessing ♥, people leave me alone and never notice me, and it leaves me to do whatever I want :P. I kind of like that ♥. it allows me to be independent and not depend on the praise of others ,simply because none ever comes. and it is ok, because I don´t have to stress about pleasing anyone!
I feel that being ugly is very freeing ♥.
but I understand your words are coming from the pureness of your heart, but truly I find it awesome!
you are so kind and wise and yeah people-pleaser, I gotta try pretty hard to even find people who tolerate me ....that's so valid tho i relate so much still... you shouldnt use negative words to describe yourself like that, you might think its fine but it seriously affects your sense of self-worth you know :( i dont think im pretty either, but i stopped calling myself ugly and started saying im "average looking" instead, it really changed the way i see myself. im not afraid to stand up for myself anymore, im more carefree and confident in my abilities, i realized i dont have to be a people-pleaser all the time and it helped a lot with my anxiety too,..... and "average looking" is not even a very positive way to describe someone
anyway like i said, you deserve kindness. we humans are fragile so be gentle to yourself and dont let me catch you calling yourself ugly again hmph
that's you looking at yourself through your warped self perception again,,,, as a person who is not brekker i think i speak for most people here when i say brekker is one of the kindest, most easy to talk to people on this forum and i genuinely am soso glad to have around ♡you are so kind and wise and yeah people-pleaser, I gotta try pretty hard to even find people who tolerate me ....I mean look at me on the forum.