Turn offs in an argument? (1 Viewer)

[Mayday]

yea lmao

what kind?

 

[nyaajooe]

what kind?

there's different kinds???

 

[Mayday]

there's different kinds???

yes i actually researched a lot when i was younger. colorblindness is definitely not at all just b/w, in fact, that one is pretty rare. the people that use the "colorblind glasses" aren't technically colorblind they just have a color vision deficiency because the word blind indicates that you can see none at all.

also males are more likely to be colorblind/deficient than females.

 

[daesuki]

what kind?

why are u so excited lol i have a mild tritanopia i think

 

[nyaajooe]

yes i actually researched a lot when i was younger. colorblindness is definitely not at all just b/w, in fact, that one is pretty rare. the people that use the "colorblind glasses" aren't technically colorblind they just have a color vision deficiency because the word blind indicates that you can see none at all.

also males are more likely to be colorblind/deficient than females.

you're so smart <333

 

[Mayday]

why are u so excited lol i have a mild tritanopia i think

I'm really interested in color vision deficiencies and color blindness, i actually used to want to study that for a living

 

[raymondchouku]

Mine is when one of two things occur: (1) Talking about politics and the other person starts screaming because you don't agree; (2) The other person walks out of the room. Its very passive-aggressive and really annoys me.

 

[Mayday]

Mine is when one of two things occur: (1) Talking about politics and the other person starts screaming because you don't agree; (2) The other person walks out of the room. Its very passive-aggressive and really annoys me.

The latter really bothers me too, I was actually just going to mention it. Similar to the whole "okay" thing, it just shows that you've "lost". The mature way to go about things if you are really incapable of continuing in that moment would be to say something along the lines of "I don't think I can continue this argument this argument right now because I'm not in the headspace to process everything properly. We should continue this once we both cool off" and then walk off rather than throwing a tantrum and walking off because you're mad.

 

[daesuki]

I'm really interested in color vision deficiencies and color blindness, i actually used to want to study that for a living

ok u don't have a weird fetish

yeah its quite interesting but itd be nice to know what colors looks like I've been told a couple times my graphic contrast use is insane

 

[Mayday]

ok u don't have a weird

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yeah its quite interesting but itd be nice to know what colors looks like I've been told a couple times my contrast use is insane

Yeah I think I myself have told you to lower the contrast a bit but since your cones lower the contrast for everything ig you can't really help it

Man i hate to be the one to tell you this, but you would NOT be a good caveman.

 

[daesuki]

Yeah I think I myself have told you to lower the contrast a bit but since your cones lower the contrast for everything ig you can't really help it

Man i hate to be the one to tell you this, but you would NOT be a good caveman.

gotta be able to see wtf my graphics look like i just gotta relower the dang thing

dammit my one dream aside from ballerina princess astronaut

 

[Mayday]

gotta be able to see wtf my graphics look like i just gotta relower the dang thing

dammit my one dream aside from ballerina princess astronaut

do u know what colors u have trouble seeing?

 

[daesuki]

do u know what colors u have trouble seeing?

green i hate doing green graphics

apparently my world looks like those 4th of July popsicles according to my roommate

 

[Mayday]

green i hate doing green graphics

apparently my world looks like those 4th of July popsicles according to my roommate

oh man you REALLY would not be a good caveman.

 

[daesuki]

oh man you REALLY would not be a good caveman.

what is that

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I think I have multiple. One is not having any points at all and as a result, just landing on claiming the victim in the situation and shutting down any discussion as a result of that.

Also, someone starting an argument over something they are passionate about and then copping out the second someone challenges their views with a valid critique. It comes across like they wanted to start shit, not have a conversation, or listen to a different perspective and it just rubs me the wrong way and makes me lose some respect.

Also, people who raise their voice in one. It usually becomes a who can shout the loudest contest rather than who has the better argument. You want to scream over me like a little child, fine you look childish. And you didn't make a point but thanks for trying.

I also just can't stand it when you are discussing something controversial with someone who you maybe see as a friend and it gets heated to the point where they don't want to talk to you anymore-it's like literally everything up until that point where you and them bonded means nothing because you don't see eye to eye on one thing. That's not a way to live.

 

[Mayday]

I think I have multiple. One is not having any points at all and as a result, just landing on claiming the victim in the situation and shutting down any discussion as a result of that.

Also, someone starting an argument over something they are passionate about and then copping out the second someone challenges their views with a valid critique. It comes across like they wanted to start shit, not have a conversation, or listen to a different perspective and it just rubs me the wrong way and makes me lose some respect.

Also, people who raise their voice in one. It usually becomes a who can shout the loudest contest rather than who has the better argument. You want to scream over me like a little child, fine you look childish. And you didn't make a point but thanks for trying.

I also just can't stand it when you are discussing something controversial with someone who you maybe see as a friend and it gets heated to the point where they don't want to talk to you anymore-it's like literally everything up until that point where you and them bonded means nothing because you don't see eye to eye on one thing. That's not a way to live.

I'm wondering the the last one happens often to you due to your views on some political issues?

And kinda weird, but I looked up the science of screaming when we're angry and apparently it's to show dominance.

Anyone who sees an argument as an alpha vs beta thing is straight garbage.

 

[Mayday]

what is that

green meat that you probably would eat as a caveman

 

[daesuki]

green meat that you probably would eat as a caveman

yea i proly wouldn't make a good caveman

 

[daesuki]

Also, people who raise their voice in one. It usually becomes a who can shout the loudest contest rather than who has the better argument. You want to scream over me like a little child, fine you look childish. And you didn't make a point but thanks for trying.

I wanna second this, as a kid when i got into an argument with my dad he'd scream at us so that's why i have crippling fear of confrontation