Let's be honest. This thread is going to be shut down in a few minutes and I want to get the benefits of posting in a closed thread
Seriously though, Hindus from my knowledge don't believe in a continuous hell in the sense of a belief in hell that is eternal. Similarly, for certain types of Buddhism an eternal hell wouldn't be applicable. But to many faiths and denominations only those who are aware of the faith and reject it will go to hell. For instance, according to Catholics if you were never made aware of the faith and had full capacity to accept the faith then you would not be sent to hell. Someone who didn't have the capacity to fully accept the faith wouldn't be sent to hell.
Also, perceptions of hell differ. While it is common among protestants to believe in a physical burning hell where one is also separated from god. Among certain Orthodox there exists a belief where hell is not physical or separation from God, but existing in the presence of God, but because they did not love God it is painful for them.
Also for the millions of years life has existed animals did not and when they did there was an evolution from the common ancestor of the bonobo and chimpanzee and through the stages until we get to humanity or rather Homo Sapiens. We need to develop an understanding of whether humans before 4000 year estimate were able to develop ideas of Gods and religion. Humans have always created explanations for physical realities and this is attributed to why humans would make offerings and sacrifices to certain gods and engage in various rituals.
To your question, no I don't think people that are un aware of a specific religion and as such could not make a choice would be doomed to hell. As such I don't believe that a Baptist could make a assessment that someone was going to hell prior to the development of that sect or the protestant reformation. Also, while my views differ from many traditionalists and fanatics, there are many who would share my beliefs and as such would validate my view. You can find [I am not by the way] universalists quite frequently and in large numbers. I believe the concept is common among new thought … Also, one could fit in with that belief among a Quaker paradigm. My point being that while certain beliefs are part of orthodoxy, one doesn't necessarily have to carry those beliefs to practice a faith or religion.
You asked about would it be fair to those who are praying and those who are not praying to go to heaven. Perhaps as some sects believe there are gradations of heaven. For instance, those who were more devout would be at an upper tier while those who were not as devout at a lower tier.
You can't say that you are a religious person but you don't believe in its teachings? That means you are not a religious person.
But didn't she say that she doesn't give her religion a name. Its possible she's a part of an NRM that doesn't suppose a concept of hell.. She could be Wiccan for all we know and many of them don't believe in hell and even the afterlife according to Wiccans tends to vary with not all of them agreeing with the concept of the summerland.
Also, don't take this the wrong way, but please if you have a question or criticism of my response don't call me stupid or say I am dancing around your questions, because I have spent a long time on this reply than I do some other replies to threads given the seriousness of the topic. I say this because I know you to be very cutting and to an extent brutal... lol