I could add those soonGender options I think would be nice to be added:
demi-girl
agender
demi-boy
pangender
genderfluid
girlflux
boyflux
mhhh it depends. if your parents are open minded and generally supportive of lgbtq+ than I don’t think there should be a problem being open about this with them in a conversation. if you worry how they would take it you can always ease them into it.Two separate questions:
How do I tell my parents that I want them to start using they/them pronouns with me? All my friends and my sibling (he/they) already does it.
How do I tell the difference between a close friendship and romantic feelings?
My mom would be accepting because we’ve had conversations before about it. My dad not so much.mhhh it depends. if your parents are open minded and generally supportive of lgbtq+ than I don’t think there should be a problem being open about this with them in a conversation. if you worry how they would take it you can always ease them into it.
telling stuff like that apart certainly is difficult. we gotta remind ourselves that life is not like a movie and lines aren’t as clear as we think they are. what’s important is if the person makes you happy and if they are genuine with you.
mhh maybe start talking with your mom and maybe once you absolutely have the support it will be easier to talk to your dad? maybe talking to one parent wouldn’t be as scary.My mom would be accepting because we’ve had conversations before about it. My dad not so much.
Ahh yeah that is very true. I know for me I have troubles telling the difference, especially when they start saying things like ily
Yeah I think that’s probably what I’ll do, and maybe ease into the conversation.mhh maybe start talking with your mom and maybe once you absolutely have the support it will be easier to talk to your dad? maybe talking to one parent wouldn’t be as scary.
Oh totally get that. I tend to be the same way.
I think that should be the best way to go about it.Yeah I think that’s probably what I’ll do, and maybe ease into the conversation.
Kinda glad to know I’m not the only one. I misread the cues way too often
It doesn't help that I catch feelings WAY too quicklyI think that should be the best way to go about it.
And for real. The struggle is real
literally same can’t help myselfIt doesn't help that I catch feelings WAY too quickly
But then I back out like yeah commitment nopeliterally same can’t help myself
I am so like that too. commitment is scary as hell so backing out faaastBut then I back out like yeah commitment nope
It's more my past that stops me from commitmentI am so like that too. commitment is scary as hell so backing out faaast
that too. for me it‘s kinda a mix. I also can’t bear the thought of being too dependent on someone elseIt's more my past that stops me from commitment
That makes sense thoughthat too. for me it‘s kinda a mix. I also can’t bear the thought of being too dependent on someone else
yeah that’s definitely understandable. and honestly I am too in my head to message my crush. I was super crushing on a girl I currently have in my school during my traineeship and f that crush wreckedThat makes sense though
In a relationship, I do get very attached to someone and it's not exactly healthy. But I think I'm the same way when I have a crush, I message them 24/7
Oh RIP that really sucksyeah that’s definitely understandable. and honestly I am too in my head to message my crush. I was super crushing on a girl I currently have in my school during my traineeship and f that crush wrecked
having crushes irl always is soooOh RIP that really sucks
Sometimes I hesitate messaging because I feel like I'm TOO clingy