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Official LGBTIQ+ Support Thread (4 Viewers)

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Gender options I think would be nice to be added:

demi-girl
agender
demi-boy
pangender
genderfluid
girlflux
boyflux

:sakUwu:
I could add those soon
 

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Two separate questions:

How do I tell my parents that I want them to start using they/them pronouns with me? All my friends and my sibling (he/they) already does it.

How do I tell the difference between a close friendship and romantic feelings?
 

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Two separate questions:

How do I tell my parents that I want them to start using they/them pronouns with me? All my friends and my sibling (he/they) already does it.

How do I tell the difference between a close friendship and romantic feelings?
mhhh it depends. if your parents are open minded and generally supportive of lgbtq+ than I don’t think there should be a problem being open about this with them in a conversation. if you worry how they would take it you can always ease them into it.

telling stuff like that apart certainly is difficult. we gotta remind ourselves that life is not like a movie and lines aren’t as clear as we think they are. what’s important is if the person makes you happy and if they are genuine with you.
 

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mhhh it depends. if your parents are open minded and generally supportive of lgbtq+ than I don’t think there should be a problem being open about this with them in a conversation. if you worry how they would take it you can always ease them into it.

telling stuff like that apart certainly is difficult. we gotta remind ourselves that life is not like a movie and lines aren’t as clear as we think they are. what’s important is if the person makes you happy and if they are genuine with you.
My mom would be accepting because we’ve had conversations before about it. My dad not so much.

Ahh yeah that is very true. I know for me I have troubles telling the difference, especially when they start saying things like ily
 

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My mom would be accepting because we’ve had conversations before about it. My dad not so much.

Ahh yeah that is very true. I know for me I have troubles telling the difference, especially when they start saying things like ily
mhh maybe start talking with your mom and maybe once you absolutely have the support it will be easier to talk to your dad? maybe talking to one parent wouldn’t be as scary.

Oh totally get that. I tend to be the same way.
 

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mhh maybe start talking with your mom and maybe once you absolutely have the support it will be easier to talk to your dad? maybe talking to one parent wouldn’t be as scary.

Oh totally get that. I tend to be the same way.
Yeah I think that’s probably what I’ll do, and maybe ease into the conversation.

Kinda glad to know I’m not the only one. I misread the cues way too often
 

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Yeah I think that’s probably what I’ll do, and maybe ease into the conversation.

Kinda glad to know I’m not the only one. I misread the cues way too often
I think that should be the best way to go about it.

And for real. The struggle is real
 

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I think that should be the best way to go about it.

And for real. The struggle is real
It doesn't help that I catch feelings WAY too quickly :pepecross:
 

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I am so like that too. commitment is scary as hell so backing out faaast
It's more my past that stops me from commitment
 

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It's more my past that stops me from commitment
that too. for me it‘s kinda a mix. I also can’t bear the thought of being too dependent on someone else
 

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that too. for me it‘s kinda a mix. I also can’t bear the thought of being too dependent on someone else
That makes sense though
In a relationship, I do get very attached to someone and it's not exactly healthy. But I think I'm the same way when I have a crush, I message them 24/7
 

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That makes sense though
In a relationship, I do get very attached to someone and it's not exactly healthy. But I think I'm the same way when I have a crush, I message them 24/7
yeah that’s definitely understandable. and honestly I am too in my head to message my crush. I was super crushing on a girl I currently have in my school during my traineeship and f that crush wrecked
 

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yeah that’s definitely understandable. and honestly I am too in my head to message my crush. I was super crushing on a girl I currently have in my school during my traineeship and f that crush wrecked
Oh RIP that really sucks
Sometimes I hesitate messaging because I feel like I'm TOO clingy
 

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Oh RIP that really sucks
Sometimes I hesitate messaging because I feel like I'm TOO clingy
having crushes irl always is sooo :scree:

but honestly I feel like I could get clingy too
 

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