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I'm as multi-fandom as you can get and I love many groups; some of whom actively bicker with each other here and there quite often.Yes but then again.
Are those screenshots representative?
10 ss may look like everyone is against them but in reality, it could be only those 10
After all, not everyone from a fandom is on social media or on forums. Maybe only 10% of Exo-Ls are on social media and Twitter. From that 10%, 3% may hate on BTS. It seems like a lot of that 3% is something like 300 people, but there are 1000s of Exo-Ls who don't take a part in that.
See what I mean? In the end, "many" is still not representative unless we count every person in the fandom, even those outside of social media. Then you can see the ratio of haters vs. non-haters
And to be fair, it wasn't just a small amount doing it and it was very repetitive over the years. It goes much deeper than those 10 screenshots.
On the ARMY side of my fandom doings (for 3-4 years now) I've ran into many, many comments/opinions from say... exo-l against BTS and ARMY out in the wild that didn't just pertain to twitter. I'd just be minding my own business on AIM (now defunct RIP, but one of the last places I'd have expected to see it) and suddenly I'd see an exo-l dragging the shit out of bts and how they didn't deserve that very first daesang they won vs. exo at the time. And suddenly a ton of other exo-ls were joining in that I was seeing in real time, and not as just screenshots. While I was seeing that in my small corner of the internet... it was also happening on youtube, on twitter, on tumblr, etc. Everywhere. Like a bomb of anger just dropped and imploded on every platform suddenly from all fandoms. I wasn't actively searching for it and I wanted to avoid it but it felt like it was almost impossible to not see it if you were going to browse places that were public.
And then something else happened that was positive for BTS and there was even more negativity everywhere I looked. It was like a repetitive broken record of "so and so doesn't deserve this" and "so and so has less talent", etc. After years of actually watching this shit, I can see why a lot of army behave the way they do (however, it doesn't make it excusable and they need to move on and stop dwelling/fighting a battle they'll never win on a silly as fuck social media platform). Alienating oneself from "the rest" can definitely be a byproduct of constant negativity and slander lol, even if it's just that LOUD 3% that they keep seeing.
I don't agree with it and I don't participate in it as I know there are so many amazing people and fans in so many different fandoms to get to know, and that the "3%" who are being shitty don't represent everyone as a whole.
I also hate that I used exo-l vs army as an example but I felt like it was the easiest one to point out, I guess.
I love all of you nice, friendly, sane exo-l. I promise.
HOWEVER ALL THAT BEING SAID,
I don't think that's the only reason why there are "solo bts fans". Rather, it's probably just a combination of a whole bunch of other different factors. For example, like others have already said here: lots of these fans aren't "kpop fans". They don't care about kpop. They don't understand kpop. BTS is all they know and will bother with; and many of them are extremely young. The lure of a special "clique" can be very powerful.