So many things that I/people aspire to do/be are unachievable given certain circumstances. I could make it my resolution to be a nicer person... January 1st comes: Idiots that I call family get drunk and start saying sh*t about me... or say some stupid sh*t in general.. or make poor life decisions...
I aspire to do better academically... I'm already getting A's so...
I aspire to listen to more k-pop. . . That goal tends to fizzle each year I've had it since I got into k-pop in 2012... I end up just listening to a few new groups and the comebacks of the groups I liked in previous years..
Many of the goals we have are based around us, but not considering external realities. For instance, I could aspire to put away a small amount of money $20-50 each month into a savings account that I do not touch... Reality happens and something happens to flat/car/dog and I can't afford to save that money each month. Plus many of our goals tend to be goals that are very ambitious and take longer than a year to achieve.
Thus, making a New Year's Resolution to not have one makes sense.. to me at least... plus it sounds sort of ridiculous to make a resolution not to have a resolution... Its contradictory and makes no sense... And really when have I ever made sense. Literally, when I open my mouth I'm surprised Cthulhu monsters don't crawl out... and there I go again using literally the wrong way